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You will get a reward if you pay (the other one)

When I sent a message yesterday, my son just finished class. I saw that the time was over 7 o’clock in the evening. At that time, we had already had dinner. My son said that they had summer vacation there, and now there are many students in the museum, so I was very busy. My child was still on the way to the hotel when he sent me a message. I felt very distressed after hearing this, and at the same time, I felt very pleased in my heart, who would have thought that his son, who was only 18 years old, had already taken up the job. As a table tennis coach, he had been teaching for two years. It can be said that this job is very easy for those trained by the professional team. Because I like it, I am happy. I often hear my students say such words. Maybe I didn’t care too much at that time, but now it is well interpreted in my son. The occupation he is engaged in is what he likes, so he can give full play to his potential and achieve better results to the greatest extent. I still remember that six years ago when he was 12 years old, we sent it to Baoding Zhengda table tennis school and became a student under Xi Enting. Under the guidance of the world champion, the children’s scores rose rapidly, 08 when participated in the national children’s table tennis ball game in National doubles fifth of good grades, after IS in 08 years participated in the Shandong Ping school Cup International Invitational, achieved Group B champion, after a few short years, I was invited to Zhuhai to be a table tennis coach. I worked happily in his post every day. Besides working, my spare time was also very rich, children like playing billiards, reading books, surfing the Internet and traveling, which enriches his spare time life. At the same time, it also makes him find his own position and live a full and happy life. It is hard to imagine that my son didn’t like table tennis at first. I remember that when he was five years old, his father took him to school to play basketball, and he always couldn’t play well, dad coaxed her to say that if you played well, I would give you one yuan to buy delicious food. As soon as I heard that if you played well, there would be delicious food, the end of the child would come. At that time, the child was young, eating delicious food is their source of happiness, but at that time, we teachers could only get more than 300 yuan every month, except for the necessary living expenses, there was almost nothing left, therefore, it is impossible to have money to buy something he likes for his children every day. Now when the children hear that they play well, they can earn money every day and have delicious food every day, so his interest comes up, gradually his ping-pong performance got better and better, and then he sent it to Xi Enting. At that time, the living condition of the family was not good. The salary of the two of us was only about 2000 yuan each month. The tuition of the children was more than 14000 yuan each year, plus the monthly study expenses and living expenses, we can’t afford it either. We can’t afford to lend money for our children. The interest rate of credit cooperatives is very high, reaching 8 to 9 percent. Even if we do this, we will bite our teeth and survive, After spending hundreds of thousands of yuan over the past few years, the child finally became independent. Some time ago, the coach called him to go abroad as a coach, including the United States, Sweden and Taiwan, at that time, the child really wanted to go out, but later he gave up considering the problem of language communication. The child said that if he wanted to go abroad, he had to charge the electricity first, and language was a key point, the communicative ability of spoken English is very important, which needs to be cultivated, and the society is so complicated. To stand the test of wind and waves, first of all, we must see the world through wind and rain in the society, and fight to hone our will and quality, only when you reach a higher level can you stand on a broader stage. After listening to the child’s words, we think that he is becoming mature step by step, which is the only way to grow up and there is no shortcut to go. We agree with the child’s point of view that it is the long way to go, and you will search up and down. Now the monthly salary of children is more than the sum of the two of us. We don’t have to fight for one yuan as we did when we were young. We are also very pleased to have so many hobbies after work, therefore, in the process of children’s growth, positioning is very important. The most important thing is that children should like it. Only when they like it can they be interested and do their work well. There is a long way to go. I hope every day of my son’s life will be happy and every year of his growth will be fruitful, I hope that every day of his life will be full and wonderful. Love in her heart a beautiful girl met her favorite boy casually. From then on, she forgot her shyness and loved him wholeheartedly, except for work, all her spare time would be left to him, including missing him and caring for him. Almost every moment in her eyes would be his figure, his smile, his breath she knew that he was her only love in this life and she could not leave him. In this way, she spent a happy time under the care of the boy. Suddenly one day, the boy told her that he had a home and a pair of lovely babies, at this moment, the girl looked at him foolishly, leaving silent tears on her face for a while. The boy was busy wiping her tears and said sorry repeatedly, because I love you so much, I don’t know how to tell you, I wanted to leave home and leave the person I don’t love with you, but when I saw that my two children were so small, I felt more reluctant, so I suffer from pain every day. What should I do? I am reluctant to leave home with two children. I love you so much and I will never love anyone in my life except you, when she was talking, her tears flowed down silently like the seawater breaching the dike. At this time, the girl looked at the person she loved with tears and said, “remember to take good care of the child and take good care of yourself in the future, it is enough to have you in this life. Don’t ask me where I am going or worry about me. I will try my best to take good care of myself. The girl’s figure slowly disappears in the crowd without saying goodbye, because she didn’t want to say goodbye, no matter where she was in the future, in her heart, he would always exist in her memory and stay in her eternal years……

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Baby, I want to watch you grow up quietly like this

In everyone’s mind, the concept of mother is meticulous. It is hard work, care, warmth and care! Serene. Maternal love is the purest emotion in the world. A mother’s love is the laughter accompanied by her whole life. A mother’s love is the trace of missing wandering around the world. A mother’s love is the concern and anxiety of children in front of their sickbed. A mother’s love is the earnest expectation of children’s growth. Maternal love is the final destination of wandering around the world, and a clear spring to moisten the hearts of children. It is accompanied by children’s drinking and sipping, which is continuous. Therefore, the lingering of maternal love is blended in the laughter and tears of children. Therefore, there is a chant of the midline in Meng Jiao’s loving mother’s hands! Since the children were born, we have a kind of expectation that they will grow up quickly, be healthy, become talented and happy. But when they really grow up, and they are afraid that their hearts will gradually drift away from us, maybe the mother will shift according to the age of their children, from the initial overlooking to looking at them directly, then I look up gradually with my aging. If a mother always understands flexibility and growth in her own life, then her children are happy and her body and mind are also healthy. When a seedling is carefully cultivated and irrigated, it gradually forms its own personality and personality, which needs more recognition, affirmation and respect. However, the correct outlook on life was not completely formed, so they were confused and stubborn. At this time, correct patience and guidance are needed. Instead of being silent, insisting or shouting with children. Therefore, educating children is an endless book. On my child’s way of growing up, everything is like a mirror. I see too many shortcomings and deficiencies of myself, and I always want to correct and make efforts constantly. As a result, I always have no patience to persist. Maybe, it is not too late. I need to cultivate and adjust my mentality, not to grow too long. A good mother in my heart is not the feeling of the child now, but a few years later, he will always remember your good, thank you for giving everything to let him learn to be independent, strong, happy and responsible. Baby, knowing that you are not willing to share all your feelings with your mother, you need to keep appropriate psychological space, and hope that the way we love is coordinated with your heart needs, mom is willing to give you more psychological nutrition without complaint or regret! Baby! Mom just wants to watch you grow up quietly like this.

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Placed

[Introduction] friends said, don’t put too much experience into memory. Those past time can be tasted carefully occasionally in spare time, but it is not suitable for daily life, busy days are not an occasion suitable for placing the past, just like the side of daily necessities, oil, salt, soy sauce, vinegar and tea …… to be exact, I can’t explain exactly what this word means, because I have been away from middle school Chinese for too long, and I have been away from noun explanation for some time, so I can only look at and understand it from my own point of view. Placing is a state of mind, even a state and height. Calm down, put the past, the memory, the warmth and crashing of the past, and the years in the end. Standing alone on the balcony, looking at the thousands of lights and traffic shining in the distance, staring at those mottled declines, no longer inexplicable panic and sadness, facing them with a calm mind. Placing those wonderful and helpless things, walking all the way will always kill some courage and strength to haggle over every ounce, then walk away silently, don’t participate, don’t care, don’t add trouble, giving yourself a quiet corner is always a good choice for rest and self-protection. A few days ago, I saw an appreciative writer saying in the column: life, except for the things that make us feel painful, the rest is gathering and scattering, I think every one of us must learn to adapt, instead of crying at a loss every time. We must learn that when I miss someone, he is not around me. This sentence appeared in front of me in such a timely manner, explaining those feelings that I could not express in words. I just experienced the graduation season and waved goodbye to my student career of more than ten years. Move the simple traveling bag away from the collective dormitory which has lived for four years, and stop at another corner which does not belong to my hometown. However, it cannot adapt and adjust well. I often think of some things in the past, some people, some people who have been away from me for a long time, some people who have lost contact with me, some people who often turn around with me, some things that have been very remote, some things that have just happened recently, and all memories are intertwined, connecting those who are far or near. It turns out that, life used to be so wonderful, just like a painting, colorful, dazzling. My friend said, don’t put too much experience into memory. Those past time can be tasted carefully occasionally in spare time, but it is not suitable for daily life and busy days, it is not an occasion suitable for placing the past, just like the side of firewood, oil, salt, soy sauce and vinegar tea, which is not suitable for flickering candlelight and roses. Using a lot of time to recall, from another perspective, is also an escape and dissatisfaction to the status quo. I dare not face myself with a proud attitude, so I have to think about the wonderful and beautiful things I once had, give yourself some courage, that’s all. Place, put all the happy and beautiful things and things worth cherishing, and also those unhappy and sad things, so as to find a quiet home for your heart, regardless of the wind and rain outside, can warm yourself in the soft. Even if I often think of it, I can smile calmly and give myself the greatest comfort. If you walk alone, find a place for the traces left by the road you have passed, and put them all up. Don’t always pack up your luggage and move forward like that, it’s too hard and tired. Only by letting go can we go into battle lightly, enjoy the beautiful scenery along the road and move forward bravely with the best mentality. Put it all up, leave all the things left by time to yourself in the future. When the years run forward, after years, standing on another strange Street to stop and watch, seeing the familiar streetscape, you can also tell yourself with a smile that the past and the past have not passed away, they are all perfectly placed in the corner where the flood of time cannot resist.

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-Like Moonlight shui ru tian

[Introduction] do you know I miss you? Night, quietly. I waited for you one night after another. Do you know I miss you? The night is long and long. I am still waiting for you quietly and foolishly.

When the Moonlight spreads all over the windowsill, I like to sit by the window silently, as if only myself and the cold moonlight are left in this huge world. Under the moonlight like water, I can hear the clear stars and whispers, listen to the constant mood of floc in the corner of the wall and the satisfaction of every piece of colorful fallen leaves. With the passing of time, they have the past and later events that they can be proud of. As for me, I can also narrate a mood with moonlight. Every old poem is written in the rainy afternoon. Every long song is sung on the moonlit night of fallen leaves; May my humble hut send out a story of my own feelings. The cabin is like soft moonlight, and the Moonlight is like water and sky. At this time, the night is already dark, and the Moonlight is still there. My husband has been on a business trip for several days, and I feel so lonely at night without my husband! I walked out of the courtyard alone. Tonight, the Moonlight is like water. Crossing the bridge, facing the shadow of trees intoxicated by the moonlight, I wandered in a piece of Poplar Forest. The path was long and the fragrance of the soil permeated. Next to it was the calm river that had just fallen asleep. In The Grass aside, crickets sang tired songs. The breeze caressed my face, and the fragrance of flowers blew in, and my mood was also floating with it. On the riverside, people fishing in the Moonlight are dotted with stars. Not far away, beside the flower bed, two old men in white were practicing tai chi, accompanying the moonlight. In the distance, the steep and numerous peaks were inlaid with gold, and the clouds and plates were like fish shower under the moonlight. Alone Walk. After crossing the Lin Yin path, I walked along the river. In the distance, the golden Moonlight spread over the Lotus Pond, waking up the sleeping Lotus. Only the Reed beside the water flutters lightly. I don’t know whether it is enchanted or heartbroken. What is more is the coolness of autumn wind. The night loses the passion of summer and brings the lingering wound of floc. Because the scenery here was so beautiful that there was no reason to stop me. I went through the quiet wisteria corridor and sat down in the small pavilion beside the lake. Mind like water, My thoughts also slowly welled up in my heart. Chang ‘e was dancing in the sleeves, and the wind was faint. Like a hook, the crescent moon is hanging on the high sky, and the clear glow is like water scattering on the river; With plain and clean, with cold, I am accompanied by the long and long cold night. As the moon shines, you seem to step on my eyes quietly. Accompanied by the sound of nature, the lingering rhyme of low singing and lingering around the beam has been lingering in my mind and shocked in my heart for a long time, turning my missing into a long-lasting feeling. Moonset River, disposing of a colorful. The shadow of trees in the river, when you dance with the waves, can you see the clear glow like water swaying in your heart? I am just a hint of clear light in your arms, feeling your warmth. Do you know I miss you? Night, quietly. I waited for you one night after another. Do you know I miss you? The night is long and long. I am still waiting for you quietly and foolishly. The bright moon rises to the treetop, pouring from the branches and leaves in the bright, can you miss you, your tenderness? The window sanding like running water is just like your hands gently touching my cold face. My red lips are full of shy red roses; My watery eyes are planted with carefree moon trees. -Like moonlight, shui ru tian. The person who misses is not around! I really want to sing a lovesickness into a long string. I really want to pick off the stars Full of Sky, play with the soft feelings of boxing, and swing over your sky with my missing. -Like moonlight, shui ru tian. The coldness surrounded me. The sweetness of the past, the youth of the past, just like the moonlight, flowing through the heart. Dork of the moon dance, month speechless. No choice, sitting alone in the dim water, casually rest Chun Fang. I have nothing to do with the clouds in the world. The flowers in the world Bloom and fall, and I have nothing to do with them. I just want to separate my mind and travel far away in the Cape, at the end of the world! I just want to turn into a sad white cloud, singing a thousand years of fate to pursue you to the Cape, to the end of the world!

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Woman, tempt your husband well

[Introduction] in marriage, you can be your husband’s little woman, be a little naughty, be a little capricious, climb to his head and ask for a rose, this method is very useful, you can try, he will agree to what you want happily, and he will be mentally beautiful….

Stepping into the Palace of marriage, Prince Charming before marriage found that he also wanted to eat after marriage. His clothes would also be dirty, and he would also mess things up, and all this needs your labor. You are no longer a little girl who only lies in her mother’s arms to play coquetry. You have become a little woman. You must cook and wash clothes, clean up the house so that pots and pans become your life, and the constant friction with your husband becomes your life. Those love seems to disappear, and you must live for living. Before marriage, girls often dress themselves up beautifully before going out, in order to give their lover the most beautiful side. After marriage, women also dress themselves up beautifully when going out. Why do they come home, take off your beautiful clothes quickly. Your hair is messy. Put on the clothes you don’t want and dangle in front of your husband. You leave the ugest side to your husband, your husband is your closest person, doesn’t he need to look good? Are those men and women walking on the street who need eye care? You may forget that a man in marriage also needs your beauty. If your beauty disappears, he may turn his eyes to other places. In front of beauty, a man will always be a cat that loves to eat fishy smell, please don’t say that men are bad and have no conscience. That is the natural instinct of cats. When you kneel on the ground to clean the floor, when you walk out of the kitchen full of lampblack, you have become a man’s responsibility. The reason why he stays at home is that he is a good man, I haven’t forgotten my responsibilities and the affection of my children yet. What kind of family affection, marriage is like a vast ocean, and home is like a boat, in the same boat, fate is connected, no one is willing to knock it over, just because no one can live a bad life of capsizing, if another boat approaches at this time, it shows its most beautiful side in front of your husband, what will he do? At this time, women always complain that their husband has no conscience, or the lover’s shame, but did not expect that the real reason lies in yourself. If you are still beautiful and considerate, how could he eat outside so easily. What is the meaning of home? You have done it for a woman, a gentle and considerate wife, a mother of the child, washing, cooking and cleaning the house, and what can your husband do? You have deprived him of the right to cook, you deprived him of the right to clean up his house. You drove him out of this House, making him feel that home is a hotel or restaurant. Only when he truly understands the meaning of home can he cherish it, home is honey, also to 1.1 point of Eat, if always soak in honeypot, even in sweet he don’t know taste. In marriage, you can be your husband’s little woman, be a little naughty, be a little capricious, climb to his head and ask for a rose, this method is very useful, you can try, he will agree with what you want happily, and be mentally beautiful. You can also be your husband’s mother. When he encounters difficulties, he will work with him to cover the wind and rain and weather the difficulties together, let him know that even if the whole world has abandoned him and he still has you, you can still be his lover. You will be very happy with you before and after the flowers and the moon, you went back to your premarital period and did everything his lover could do. Can he still leave you? Woman, take action and run to the front of your lover to tempt your husband well. Women are like flowers, and flowers are easy to die. No matter how beautiful a woman’s face is, she can’t stand the relentless changes of time. The small face which was more beautiful than flowers yesterday seemed to be still in the mirror, but today the frame is full of traces of time. No matter how expensive the cosmetics are, they can’t hide the charm of vicissitudes in the eyes which can only be possessed after years of washing. Some women give up maintaining their appearance after getting married. They either take care of their husbands or worry about their children every day, and there are a lot of complicated Housework. How can they prevent women from aging too early. Beautiful appearance and eye-catching figure must be maintained. Maintenance requires money and time, but how can a married woman have enough money and time to give herself, unless you marry a man with absolutely good economic status or a man who will definitely love you. The former will invite a housekeeping aunt to do housework and help take care of the children so that you can have time to take a gold card to the beauty salon, the latter will rush to do housework with you because they love you so that you can have time to DIY yourself, stick a cucumber slice and apply nails and so on. Women, who don’t love beauty. Who was not a beautiful woman before marriage. Men’s eyes will always scan on beautiful women intentionally or unintentionally, and think about their wives when seeing those beautiful women, conscientious people will feel sorry for their wives from their hearts, and they will feel more distressed about their wives and cherish their homes. However, how many women are lucky to meet such men? As a woman, what can you do? For the sake of family and giving children a complete home, some women regard them as having nothing to know, some women choose divorce or quarrel, but no matter what way, women’s hearts are hurt, A kind of pain that cannot be described by words. To put it bluntly, men are nothing more than two kinds of love for the new and hate the old and love the new and never hate the old. No matter which kind of man you meet, it is a kind of pain. If you can meet a man who doesn’t like the new and never hates the old and only regards you as a treasure, then you have been practicing for thousands of years. I don’t know that a woman who has such deep practice can have geometry. So, women, don’t neglect your beauty, when you can still be beautiful. For married women, this sentence is easy to say, difficult to do, and hard, but for the sake of their own men, they seldom put their eyes on beautiful women on the street, it’s worth the hard work. Which woman doesn’t care when she finds that a man drops his eyes on other beautiful women? Even though some women seem to be as if nothing has happened on the surface, their hearts are full of hatred. Don’t believe the spiritual beauty that men say. That is a lie. Although it is a commendatory term, it is definitely a lie. What is gentle, virtuous and considerate? What they mean is that women should not only be gentle and considerate to them, but also do a lot of housework. However, when they dislike that your hands are not delicate and your hair is not soft enough, when the skin is not smooth enough, when there are other women outside, you should understand his meaning well and don’t ask him too much. In fact, men all want to be Wei Xiaobao. Although only one wife can be married in this era, the temptation of beauties outside exists all the time, and hotels are everywhere, providing them with sufficient convenience. Spiritual beauty can maintain your virtue as a woman, but external beauty can better maintain the purity of your feelings. Women all hope that their men’s feelings towards themselves are like the water of Clear Spring. Spiritual beauty is like a house with good quality, while external beauty is the decoration of the house. Who doesn’t like to own a beautiful villa. So, woman, don’t neglect your beauty, when you can still be beautiful. Most men take women’s efforts for granted, because you are his wife. Especially when you meet a man with no conscience, he will not think that your beautiful appearance is gone because of him, and he will not admit that your youth is gone because of complicated housework and children, he won’t think you are still the most beautiful after you become a yellow-faced woman. Nowadays, most women work like men, but after work, they are harder and more tired than at work. What women are all thinking about is that family, husband, parents, children and housework, how can they know that their appearance has changed quietly by accident. However, because men want to do business, this best reason can have enough time to keep their eyes on a beautiful woman. Very shameless, despised, but also very helpless. So I can only say, woman, don’t neglect your beauty. Woman, don’t neglect your beauty, when you can still be beautiful. You don’t have to exaggerate to be the same as some stars. You only pursue life for your beautiful appearance all your life, but you absolutely have the right to take care of your own beauty. Let yourself be young, don’t grow old too early, don’t let other men put their eyes on you, at least don’t let your men put their eyes on other women. When you are sure that you don’t have thousands of years’ deep practice, only by making yourself beautiful can you give yourself a happy life. Woman, don’t neglect your beauty. When you still have thoughts on the makeup table, when you seem to still see the Water Moon in the mirror.

Like (prose editor: Jiangnan wind) the snow in spring

Spring elimination snow, multi-the yao nian, unspoken. Reading from afar, it is just above that snowfield. The snow is really beautiful, after all it is spring…

Waiting

Waiting is a kind of persistence, sticking to a certain belief and never giving up. Maybe because of a certain commitment, or because of a certain…

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Simple happiness

[Introduction] I am very grateful to have such a Moon Girl’s attachment and concern. I am also very grateful to her for coming to Kunming, Yunnan province to study graduate school, and she decided to accompany each other for three years at public expense. Now, it not only adds a set of even numbers, but also multiplies a set of happiness.

The hurried time and space reverses the deliberate mind. It seems that I haven’t calmed down in the deep soul for a long time, and opened the nearest current affairs and gains. Especially the muddled years were filled with overstocked tasks, and what was left was the exhaustion and bitterness after running and wandering all the way. Sometimes, I suddenly feel that I am actually very happy, because happiness is actually very simple. The key is to appreciate the happy mentality. I had never realized the simple happiness before. The happiness I pursued was luxurious, wild and vulgar. Now it is safe in reality, and reality has given me enough. In fact, I don’t need it any more, but I used to pursue and expect greedily. I really don’t know whether it is right or wrong. Even if I miss it, the ending is right. God closed a window when I was struggling for it, but opened a door when I didn’t expect it, so God was very fair, very grateful! These days, I have been accompanied by Candy in Kunming. Time flies so fast. I am really happy and happy. I don’t know whether she treats me too well or her own requirements are too low, I think she is just an angel arranged by God, thinking about everything silently for me, which can be accepted no matter what the situation is. Many friends once questioned why we can talk about today, because we are two different personalities, let alone the big gap between us in others’ eyes. In fact, I have also thought about this question, maybe it is complementary to each other, tolerance and tolerance. Today, I saw off the ducklings and felt melancholy in my heart. Suddenly I felt something lost and suddenly I understood the importance of each other. She looked at the neat and clear desk in the dormitory, the folded clothes in the wardrobe, the cleaning of the floor and washroom, and the “going to the end of the world” she hummed crazily. Touching the lavender she picked in Normal University and drinking the Hougu Coffee she bought for me to quit smoking, I thought it was a kind of simple happiness. I am very grateful to have such a Moon Girl’s attachment and concern, and I am also very grateful to her for my coming to Kunming, Yunnan province to study graduate school, and she has successfully decided to accompany each other for three years at public expense, it not only adds a set of even numbers, but also multiplies a set of happiness. I think each other should be married to lovers. I am also very grateful to have the support and love of my parents, and I am very grateful to the companionship of many friends and brothers around me. I will try my best to cherish and cherish your happiness, and strive to bring you happiness. I am also grateful to those who make me mature and understand love, no matter you are a fairy baby, a little McDull or a Bi Jia pig. Listening to my favorite “FIRSTLOVE”, I recalled these little happiness and hoped that I would always be so calm and relieved, happy and happy. In my memory, the brilliance of lavender, the nostalgia of sunshine bath, the blue sky after wind and rain, from now on, I love peace!

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Fragrance

[Introduction] calm down and think: now it has been the year of establishment, and it has gone through some wind and rain, but now it is dim in the morning but at a loss. As time goes by, there are many feelings that must be hidden; There are many people.

On the night of early summer, the breeze hit and strolled on the Boulevard. Suddenly, a long-lost fragrance of Elaeagnus angusae flew into the nose from time to time, so fragrant, still faint, faint, I am making intoxicating and beautiful dreams in the fragrance of flowers. The flower shape of Elaeagnus angusae is very similar to Osmanthus, but it is not as delicate and exquisite as osmanthus. The surface of Elaeagnus angusae leaves is covered with a thick, it reflects the clear and cold brilliance under the sunlight. That light and quiet Demin seemed to tell her story of struggling with ruthless years for thousands of years, and there was also a beautiful legend about Elaeagnus angusae. Emperor Qianlong of Qing dynasty had a concubine from Sinkiang, who was deeply loved by Qianlong because of the exotic fragrance on his body, so he was named Xiangfei. It is said that there is a jujube River in the hometown of Xiangfei, and jujube trees grow on both sides of the river. Every time when the Elaeagnus angusae flowers bloom, the Elaeagnus angusae flowers are full of fragrance, scattered in the jujube River with the wind, and the whole river is permeated with rich fragrance of flowers. Xiangfei likes to bathe and soak in this river. As time passes, the fragrance of Elaeagnus angusae penetrates into the skin, and the body fragrance of Xiangfei comes from this. When you are young, every time when the Elaeagnus angusae flowers are fragrant, you will fold a string of flower branches, insert them into the bottle or put them into the schoolbag. The flowering period of Elaeagnus angustiflorum is very long, which lasts for nearly one month. When Elaeagnus angustiflorum is in full bloom, the whole air is filled with light Elaeagnus angustiflorum fragrance. The folded flower branches will also bloom for a week before the fragrance disappears. This season is the most beautiful season in Xinjiang, and what makes people more intoxicated is the refreshing fragrance of Elaeagnus angustiflorum in the air. Jujube tree is a tree species in northwest Gobi, which often grows on arid and barren land. Facing the harsh external environment, jujube tree is still growing tenaciously and vigorously, and flowers that can float thousands of miles have blossomed, adding countless spring colors and vitality to this colorless land. Small flowers, light yellow, fresh and bright, Bloom on the branches in clusters and dance in the wind. As the wind blows away the fragrance. In my mind, there is no other flower known and cherished like Elaeagnus angusae. Her blooming is destined to be refined and detached. She didn’t envy the wealth of peony, the beauty of Rose or the beauty of life in front of the sun, but she was strong enough to bloom all her life alone, abandoning regrets and forming her own charm. Be strong in the storm, calm in the years and seasons, and elegant in the trifles of the world of mortals. The blooming Elaeagnus angusae also gives people the longing for love, but love is not just a beautiful dream. Yes, jujube tree is rooted in northwest China. Facing the ruthless wind and sand, it does not lower its head and proudly opens bright flowers with overflowing fragrance. At this moment, I suddenly secretly laughed at myself how naive I had complained that I didn’t grow up in a place with beautiful mountains and rivers and pleasant scenery. Now I can’t help feeling the spring scenery in this season, the scenery that really touches people’s heart often does not lie in the famous mountains and rivers, and the Tang Garden in Wei garden. It doesn’t lie in the popularity of tourists. As long as you are in the right state of mind, or you are isolated from the desert wasteland and living in the countryside and mountain village, you can also interpret the real beauty silently from the sun, moon, rivers, wind and rain, in order to decorate the time passing by quietly, the plain days can also be brought out from time to time. This fascinating poetic and pictorial feeling lies in the philosophy of scenery. Looking at everything around with a good mood, life is beautiful, the world is full of beautiful scenery, flowers and trees can shine on life. Meditation and thinking: now it has been the year of establishment, and it is also considered to have gone through some wind and rain, but now it is dim in the morning but at a loss. As time goes by, there are a lot of feelings that must be hidden; There are a lot of people who must miss; There are a lot of fantasies that must be shattered. There is no need to worry and there is no right or wrong. Just like me at this moment, smelling the fragrance of flowers is a kind of enjoyment, luxury and detachment. In my opinion, no matter how plain life is, it is a unique, out-of-print and wonderful masterpiece. It depends on what kind of vision you use to understand it. Today, I smelt the familiar fragrance of Elaeagnus angusae again, which aroused the deep and shallow feelings buried in my heart and made me uncontrollable excitement and happiness. At this moment, the light fragrance seems to become strong again, floating beside my breath, breathing, deep breathing, the light sweet fragrance makes me intoxicated, intoxicating makes me look for the blooming vitality and the warmth of green in the noisy world of mortals!

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Inscription: I still remember my father’s big palms in the past. When I have injections, when I draw blood, when I dare not face the pain, I always close my eyes and hold my father’s hand gently. I feel at ease and don’t have to be afraid of anything. When you are alone, you can hold your left hand and your right hand to give your hands the temperature you need; When you are alone, you can be very cold and use indifference to drive away the cold. If the glacier in one’s heart will melt, it is because of friendship and kinship. Dare not expect the whole hug, just a shoulder when he is sad; Dare not expect a big palm, just a cup of hot tea when his hands are frozen; Dare not expect daily companionship, it may be better to see him happy from a distance; I dare not expect love, not only because it is illusory, but also because it is a luxury. The temperature of the palm is not high, but it makes people feel comfortable, because it is the nearest place, and the heart can feel it. People have gone away, and the temperature is still there; The tea is cool, and time changes. Hand in hand, don’t let go casually, leave it to one person for the whole winter; Let go, it will be more thorough, if it is not the deepest hurt, how can you completely let go of yourself and the heart that has already stopped beating. Everyone hopes to have a pair of gentle hands to give warmth to the person who loves most. It is the most romantic thing to be able to rely on each other and stay with each other until they grow old. You don’t need to sit in BMW to see the scenery, and you can also laugh and talk together on a bicycle; You don’t need to be with you all the time, but your place is heaven, the happiest day is when you are with you. Life is just like this! The plain beauty of daily necessities!

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qiu yu

[Introduction] as a wife and a mother, they all try their best to be the best of themselves. Although sometimes they complain to their husband and are willful, they are more about caring, understanding and sharing for him, I want to make myself the pride of his whole life.

Unconsciously, autumn has come. Farewell to the hot summer in 2010, I feel relaxed and comfortable in my heart! Autumn is a season of maturity and harvest, and this season is my favorite every year. But autumn is also a nostalgic and melancholy day!! Just after class, I received a phone call from my good friend, inviting me to go out. I was in high spirits, but I felt pain in my waist and back and stiff body. I also feel funny. It seems that I am not the one I used to be. What’s the matter? Have you really entered middle age. Hehe, unconsciously, I spent another year in sloshing. The vicissitudes of the sea and the sadness of departure were unexpectedly my lingering complex. I felt that I was no longer young, and the cicadas burst into bursts, gradually moving away from youth in the changing seasons. A few days ago, I received a call from a classmate from afar. I was happy at first, but somehow I had more vicissitudes and calmness, chatting about some past events many years ago and myself today. Behind our happy life, we all have some helplessness and sigh with emotion. It is not unhappiness, but an extra responsibility and pressure, gradually numb to many things, and the only desire in the indifferent heart is slowly melting. As a wife and a mother, they all try their best to be the best of themselves. Although sometimes they complain to their husband and are willful, they are more caring, understanding and sharing for him, I want to make myself the pride of his whole life. Be a mother like a bosom friend, and let her daughter be more confident and healthy because of her mother’s encouragement on the road of growing up! Life is just like the weather. There are both depression and sunshine. Every time I see my parents over 60 years old, they are so cheerful, wise and easygoing. Yesterday, I giggled with my dad on the internet. My mom said that you, a silly girl, would never grow up. Yeah! Seeing their parents feel that they are so happy, they can also act coquetry in front of their mother and father. When they are ill, their daughter can also do her best to repay and thank their parents! Yeah! Time goes by. Autumn is the season to pick up memory fragments, and it is also a season to make people lazy. The only thing that makes people active is brain cells. In this season, we are imagining, grateful and cherishing, we are recalling that it will not be far away in the sad winter, but we just know that autumn is actually a transition from warm to cold. Through autumn, it is a journey of heart. Believe in yourself, release yourself in every bright moment, seize every happy moment, and strive to live a better life for yourself and your family. If you get drunk, you will know that you are drunk, and if you love, you will know that! Click on the floating life, cherish the touch in your heart!

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Silent hope

I am used to making a cup of tea and watching the tea slowly stretching and blooming in the Cup under the infiltration of water. At this time, my heart is so warm, warm can pass through the wireless and wide space, stay and store in places beyond the reach of vision …… I know that when its warm fragrance rises slowly indoors, my heart is filled with deep thoughts, it is like the wisps of fragrance lingering in my heart, which makes me look back slowly by accident. I still remember the song that I like to listen to most. Whenever I hear the familiar melody, tears in my eyes cannot flow down. Maybe it is the true feelings and helplessness of life revealed between the lines! I believe that many people will have deep feelings when hearing this song, which is also the reason why this song can last for a long time. When I slowly wandered in it along the track of this song, I felt that I was so tiny that the small one could fall into the dust, in fact, each of us is not a small particle in the world, that is, it fills in this vast space, making spring warm and blooming, making summer colorful and autumn full and abundant, let winter be crystal clear and pure. I know I am not a perfectionist, but I hope this world is full of simplicity and innocence, I hope everyone’s heart is as clear and spotless as a child, has wisdom and longing as a middle-aged man, sits on a rocking chair like an old man, and listens to an old song, in the warm atmosphere of my children and grandchildren around their knees, I quietly walked through the splendid years.

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