Month: September 2017

Recovery of love

I like music because of the feeling brought by its beautiful melody. Or happiness, or lingering, or ethereal, or silence. But unfortunately, my mother was seriously ill and hospitalized that year. I was at home with my grandparents who were over 80 years old. At that time, I was 12 years old and knew how to share the sorrow for adults. I helped grandma wash clothes, but because my hands were full of washing powder, my hands were very slippery when I pressed water with a water well. Unfortunately, it happened. The pressure bar hit my throat, and I immediately lost my voice, my face was sallow, I had to open my mouth and couldn’t say a word. My grandparents were terrified and hurriedly asked a cousin who was not far away for help. At that time, buses were not popular yet, and the cousin insisted on using bicycles, after walking for more than 60 miles, I was sent to the county hospital. My mother had already had an operation at that time. My father saw me, and I still can’t remember that anxious expression. My father arranged the matter of taking care of my mother, so he took me to Jining immediately, At that time, it was my first trip. My father also took me to the zoo. I didn’t know the pain brought by losing my voice. At that time, I was very happy to see those animals I had never seen before. But my father, but it is full of worries. Fortunately, I saw it in a timely manner, and my voice recovered bit by bit. However, it was no longer as pleasant as before. Until now, there is still a feeling of being blocked, and I have taught more to my students, I often can’t say anything. My mother left us permanently in the second year after the operation. From then on, my soul world was full of darkness, and I couldn’t get out of the shadow of losing my mother all the time. In order to relieve the pain of my soul, at that time, I began to like writing. When I was in junior high school, the school offered music lessons, and I also liked music. If my voice was not good, I would sing silently. What I like most is this song: come on in February, beautiful scenery, every family is busy farming because this is my mother’s favorite song before her death. I recalled her little bit by bit in my heart, while singing in my heart: February is a beautiful day, every family is busy farming and singing, tears overflowed her eyes. Family changes made me more sensible and diligent. At that time, I seldom wrote because of the endless exercises. I only wrote a few diaries occasionally, most of them express their depressed mood. My love for music is also silent. I sing in my heart and what I sing more is: it’s beautiful in February and every family is busy farming. This song reminds me of my mother, it also inspires me to study hard and live up to her high expectations for me under Jiuquan. In 1998, I graduated. I became a teacher. There was an organ in the school. I touched it from time to time. Unexpectedly, I found out the doorway and learned to play the organ without a teacher. At first, I played it with one hand, later, both hands were used together, and the left hand also beat. At that time, in addition to the song “Come in February”, I also copied more than 200 simple scripts and played two or three hours every day, reaching a situation of obsession and selflessness. It was music that changed my mood. It drove away the loneliness in my heart and also dispelled the sadness and loneliness in my heart. I often forgot my existence. However, the trauma brought to my soul by my mother’s departure could never be healed. It changes and influences everything of me unconsciously. Even, it also affected my choice of marriage. I, lacking maternal love, even put her mother first. I don’t want anything, as long as my future mother-in-law can treat me well, I am willing to give everything I have. In this way, I found a family with poor family conditions. I don’t care. I don’t want them at all. I like to stand on my own and don’t rely on others, I am sure to live a happy life. I always think that, Poor parents must know that they love their children, including their daughter-in-law. However, I was wrong. I didn’t want anything, but my mother-in-law doubted that there must be something wrong with me, whether I had heart disease, and whether I couldn’t raise offspring for them. I tried hard to do it and also paid for this family, but the result was that my mother-in-law was never satisfied with me. She quarreled with me again and again, and she kept nagging endlessly, I really can’t stand it! No one can feel the sadness and despair when a person is hurt and insulted. I almost want to hit the wall with my head, and even want to end myself. The heart-wrenching words, the depressed mood of depending on others, the character of everyone in this family is as strong as fire and firewood, and this family is always full of war. I am too tired, too tired! This is too different from the warm, harmonious, free, relaxed and happy home in my mind! I struggled hard, but I could never get out of my heart net. I have my principle and moral bottom line of being a human being, that is to be real and be kind to others. I can’t surpass it. Therefore, my pain is deeper. Although, I know, Annoyance is the lowest level, and it also hurts your body the most. In this way, I lived for ten years in the family quarrel, and also suffered for ten years. Because of the mental pain, I can’t even do the minimum teaching work well, let alone my hobbies. I think I am have no chance with music in this life. The hardships of life almost defeated me. I was like a fish living in the net, walking on thin ice every day. I didn’t know when I would be tortured by this trivial matter and never had the courage to live. My little poor Music cells were also torn apart by injuries. From then on, I didn’t touch the piano any more, and I didn’t like music any more. I became indifferent and had no interest in anything I once liked. My spiritual world was black. I often felt that the road of life was so long, A happy life is also so far away. Only my daughter, my spiritual pillar, also leaves me a little idea of life. She was so beautiful and lovely. Every morning when she woke up, she would hug me tightly and shout softly: Mom. I looked at her firmly, pure and kind, like a poor kitten waiting for her mother to breastfeed, My eyes were full of attachment and love for my mother. Such a sensible daughter, like a butterfly, would wipe away the tears on my mother’s face gently with her wings. How could I have the heart to leave her! How sad and miserable it would be to let her grow up alone in this world and repeat her mother’s fate again! I remember not long ago, my daughter asked me to play a song she had learned. I played while she sang, feeling very happy. She also taught me the dance movements of this song, but I was not in place at all. My daughter smiled helplessly and said, “Mom, you are so stupid. This is the rare experience that my daughter has had in playing the piano. I remember that at the beginning, I had to copy the simplified script for so long every day, but now, the black organ that I once regarded as a treasure has been covered with a thick layer of dust, I was placed in the corner of nobody and never cared about and cared about by me. I think it feels good to play the piano with my daughter. Although she said she was stupid, her heart was warm. The beautiful piano and the immature singing of my daughter unexpectedly made me forget all the troubles in the world. The long-lost organ, the beautiful melody sounded, gradually awakened my sleeping and numb mind. I should still love music, because it can make my silent heart wake up little by little, and at the same time, I also love my daughter and the world. Moreover, my young colleague and friend suddenly died in a car accident, which made me feel that my life was so fragile! I shouldn’t live like this. I should have a higher spiritual pursuit! I should give myself more love to cope with the long run of my life. What makes me very happy is that I still love writing, and she makes me gradually find confidence. My mood begins to become clear, and I will play the long-lost organ again, let My Heart fly in the music.

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shi yi yue, feelings

The misty rain gently stepped over the North, and the moon of Qin Shiming was not seen tonight. In November, I felt silent with my feelings. I won’t be afraid any more. The black night was silent, and the warm night was there, staying at night. That year was dejected. When I woke up, the night was still dark enough. I wanted to say something but my dream was already at a dim point. I think of my youth frivolous, but now I feel lonely and quiet. Inner Mongolia has been cooling down continuously, how can it be rendered by summer sunshine. People are in the same place, but the sunshine outside is very good, don’t disturb. Youth is sad, and the sun is shining outside the window, no one will care about you. In November, my mind lingered and I couldn’t see who’s shadow clearly. The understatement wind blew a moving song. If I could sing it out, I wouldn’t leave any euphemistic rejection, just like I would never trust the night in the day. The beautiful words woke up the dream of memory, suddenly stood up, forgot the clues of the mind, looked back and forth blankly, only left empty. In fact, I forgot to see the melancholy in my eyes clearly. I want to talk about the unspeakable smile during the dialogue. The blurred affection is like the elegance of turning around, leaving no comfort, and the back is in an instant. At the station that year, I cried sadly. After leaving, I never touched the beauty of fireworks any more. Everyone in the past looked up, and the height of looking up could not be measured. In the past 23 years, there have been too many big moves, which have damaged the soul. In these years, it seems to be floating and looming, and the life is not bad or bad. You are not a big entertainer. If you know something, it is just a joke with yesterday. The fleeting years are scattered all over the floor, and you cannot find sweet memories. The fallen flowers and flowing water drift away, the rustling autumn wind swept away the fairy tale world that I had been longing for. The reality was just gently, steadily and calmly letting the wind slap me, as if nothing had happened, just like the advice of many experienced people, those who came here were not surprised. A piece of plain paper could not be sent out, and the fallen wood was a passing place. It was entrusted to the mountains and the road was far away. Several times of Frost exposed to the eyes, and the sight could not break through the old years, so I had to put it in my heart. A distant blessing could never break away from the encirclement of the Tianshan Mountains. Who set up doubts and could not calculate the distance between each side of the sky. I still stood in the rainy season of Inner Mongolia and had nothing to say. Looking outside the Tianshan Mountain, there was a wall in front of me. No matter the wind or rain, I was just an idiotic assumption. If one day I could break the estrangement, it will not hinder hesitation like this. In the tranquil night of Inner Mongolia, the sound of fireworks, the sound of eavesdropping and cold words, those people who were walking in the deserted streets and lanes smiled lightly and turned around the plot, lowered their heads without looking at the colorful world. Loneliness began to turn around, it doesn’t just belong to some people. Miss woke up in November. This place is different from other places. There is no tipsy sunset in the afternoon, no dazzling light in the morning, only living in your own world, not unwilling to talk. The scenery in November is no exception. The vegetation is no longer greedy for sunshine and water. The rain scares the Old Crow. The withered yellow Gobi desert can be seen at a glance. According to the fence and the window, it is a cool autumn. Missing curled up, indifferent, sending residual greetings from afar, the more the Tianshan Mountains, when the red beans in the South are red, and the green pines in the north are green, who gives a little warmth to the thoughts? Who cares? If there are many trees in the north, then get a salary and keep warm by yourself. Those mistakes made because of youth only leave the cold rain and tangled struggle nowadays. Those autumn are obvious because of heavy makeup, and now the weight of youth can only be increased. The deep-rooted feelings, like the quietness among the crowd, the more unnoticed they are. They make jokes and make people laugh. Is there anyone in the world praising silence? He is telling you that if you want to be attached to the situation, even if you have seen the reality clearly, even if it is the indifference of human feelings, who cares? If you don’t perform well in the crowd, you will be laughed. The heavy rain in Inner Mongolia began to crush those negative emotions happily. In the happy world outside, the room was filled with the smell of smoke, which was absolutely quiet. The feelings of November put humorous jokes in my pocket, regulate this happiness, ignite silent happiness, and extinguish decadence in rainy season. So hard to walk in life

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Alas! Annoying Carsick

The most fearful thing in my life is to take a car. I will never forget the suffering of carsickness even for several lifetime. There is another feature of my carsickness: the smaller the car is, the more dizzy it is. I feel dizzy when taking a bus, especially when taking a medium-sized bus, and quite dizzy when taking a small car. If it was an air-conditioned car that couldn’t open the window, and unfortunately there were several smokers, it would be even worse and more dizzy. When I was young, I especially liked the smell of gasoline, and I didn’t hate the smell of cigarettes. Every time when the village was going to show a movie and a small ship with Dynamo and projector drove into the village, the strong and familiar smell of gasoline made people full of longing and ecstatic. In the evening, in the open-air movie Court, the villagers lit up a handful of cigarette guns and watched movies leisurely. I sat on the chair which had been prepared for a long time. In the wonderful smell of gasoline and cigarettes, in the smoke, I watched the feature film with delight, which was as beautiful as a dream. However, the first time I took a bus, the strange smell of gasoline mixed with the smell of hot cigarettes made my dream a nightmare, unforgettable and unforgettable. I remembered that the first time I took a bus was when I went to the county to take the exam in the third year of junior high school. There were hundreds of men, women, old and young people in the small carriage. There were several people sitting in each row of seats, and dozens of people were standing on the pavement between the seats. I was trapped in the pavement with my classmates curiously and excitedly. My whole body was stiff and there was no room for activity. The car started to drive, and I shook from side to side with the bumping of the car, looking forward and closing back. When the car went downhill, it suddenly felt that the heart was suspended in the air, and it seemed that someone was going to take it off forcibly; When a sudden brake was on, the heart hit the atrium violently, and it seemed that it was about to fly out. That feeling was almost tortured. The curiosity and excitement of taking a bus for the first time had already disappeared without a trace. The strange smell of gasoline and the hot smell of cigarettes in the car made me feel more disgusting and unable to stop. Before long, the head began to turn round and round, with Venus shining in front of him. The stomach was rolling over the river and the sea, and there was no sweat on the body. I had never experienced that taste, and maybe it was worse than death. I really wanted to jump off. Gradually, I couldn’t hold on any longer. My classmate found something wrong with me and hurriedly asked me to lean on her back. With the car bumping up and down, shaking left and right, I feel that the whole body seems to be a leaf floating in the sea, and there is danger of being engulfed by wind and waves at any time. In the painful suffering, there is only one strong idea supporting it, that is, I hope the bus will arrive at the station quickly, End this kind of torture that life is better than death earlier. The long journey was really tough. I don’t know how long it took, the car finally stopped. When my classmate dragged me out of the car, I looked almost half-dead, and the result of the exam the next day could be imagined. From then on, I hated the smell of gasoline and cigarettes, and I was even more afraid of taking a bus. Although I am afraid of taking a car, it is inevitable to take a car in real life. I had no choice but to prevent carsickness before taking the bus. Taking carsickness medicine, smelling orange peel, sticking ginger on acupuncture points, sticking quick paste behind ears and so on, all methods have been tried, but they are all invalid for me, and there is no exception for me to feel dizzy. During the sufferings again and again, I also summed up an experience, that is, to fast the day before taking the bus, not to eat or drink, and wait until the stomach is empty before getting on the bus. Although a little cruel, it is better than nausea and vomiting. Therefore, every time I take a bus, it is like the last execution ground, having a nightmare. A few days before I wanted to take a bus, a shadow had already pressed on my mind and became an unbearable pain in my life. On the day I took the bus, I always walked a little leisurely. On the bus, Keep a posture all the time, dare not speak or look out of the window. It is impossible to close your eyes and recuperate yourself, or to swim outside your mind, or to think about interesting questions. Because the voice of people in the car was mixed with the smell of gasoline and cigarettes, which made me distracted and sick. Sitting in the car for a long time and waiting, all discomfort can not be removed. That motionless fool looks like a puppet. If the car has been running smoothly, it feels better, but it is impossible at all. The car is fast and slow, and it is just an indescribable pain when driving and stopping. After finally getting through the hardships of the road and getting off the bus, it was like having a serious illness, which hurt the vitality greatly and could not recover slowly until several days later. Therefore, in life, people who can not take a car I am absolutely dare not take risks to take a car. Every holiday, I always watched others travel by bus eagerly, while I was annoyed in my heart and sighed that I was born without blessing. One year, the school organized a trip to Nanjing. My husband and I originally agreed to have a good time with our family. The seven-year-old son was so happy that he had made an appointment with his friends for the new year. He couldn’t wait to buy something to eat on the way. That time was a tourist bus packed by the school. I heard that it was a very luxurious air-conditioned car, so I hesitated again. When the bus came at ten o’clock in the evening, I looked at my son who was already asleep and thought about the suffering of carsickness. Finally, I didn’t have the courage to wake up my son and gave up the chance of traveling cruelly. When my son woke up the next day, he knew that the car had left early and cried for a long time. Seeing his son’s heartbreaking pitiful look, being a mother was really guilty, especially when his son’s friends came back to show off the fun of his trip to Nanjing, his son shed tears again. That experience made me feel sad and reproach myself for many days. I always felt that I owed to my child because of the chronic illness of carsickness. Because of this Carsick problem, my family is not less worried. When I knew that I had to take a bus, my family would be worried, even more nervous than me. I remember that I will go to my mother’s home this summer vacation. Although it was only two hundred miles away, it took three cars on the road. As usual, I stopped eating or drinking the night before. The next morning, my husband took me to the car with anxiety and kept telling me what to pay attention. I just told him impatiently not to call me, because I couldn’t answer the phone when I was taking a bus. My parents knew my virtue. In order to save me from taking a car, my dad rode a battery car to pick me up at the station twenty miles away with a weak sick body, and bought food specially, so that I can fill my stomach when I get off the bus, so as not to hurt my stomach due to hunger. In fact, when I got off the bus, it seemed that I just came out of purgatory and couldn’t eat anything at all. My dad looked at me with illness, but shook his head and sighed heartlessly. Facing my dad’s beloved eyes, I felt sad for a while. When I arrived at my mother’s home, my mother had already prepared food. I still had no appetite. I sat down and had a rest for a while, then had a big sleep. After a few days, I could slowly regain my spirit. In those days, my mother didn’t allow me to cook anything, thinking of ways to prepare food for me. She treated me like a confinement, which made me feel uncomfortable. I used to go home to accompany the old, but instead I let them worry about me. A few days after I recovered, I will go back again. In order to take the bus, I had to fast in advance. My mother comforted me that it might not matter this time and advised me to eat less. How dare I make an exception and make myself sick and vomit in the car. When the old man sent me to the car, he said piteously: every time I went back home, I had to suffer from hunger, which was innocent as if I had two serious illnesses. The holidays will be short in the future, so don’t come back. Listening to my mother’s words, I felt so sad that my eyes were wet. Although I also want to go home often during holidays, when I go back home, I will feel distressed and uneasy for my parents, even more, I cannot bear it. Therefore, I simply did not go back. Although I suffer from carsickness, it is not all-inclusive, and there is also a little compensation. A few years ago, my colleagues were comparing each other to buy cars. My husband is very enthusiastic and greedy, and he wants to follow the trend and buy a car to enjoy himself. My home is very close to the work unit, and it is only a few minutes’ walk, so there is no need to waste a lot of money to buy and maintain a car. Because I was carsick and hated the smell of gasoline very much, I was extremely scared when I thought of taking a car, and I was extremely resistant to rejection when I saw a car. Therefore, buying a car was absolutely impossible for me. My husband had no choice but to look at the car and sigh, so his family naturally saved a lot of expenses. In addition, my family got used to it a long time ago. It was certainly my husband’s business to socialize in distant relatives, and I didn’t have any responsibility at all. Because of my carsickness, I can refuse confidently. After my family left, I could totally stay at home with ease to do what I liked and enjoy my independent space. In fact, it was just the right time for me to be happy and quiet but not fond of social intercourse. Although I can make up for the suffering of carsickness, I still feel envious every time I see others go out by car at their leisure. Alas, annoying carsickness! What else can I do. Continue to feel dizzy. It seems that I am can’t get rid of the annoying carsickness in my life. Life, more incomplete, more regret, maybe more real, more beautiful.

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Highest State?

Not long ago, I heard a joke. He said that a passerby was talking about the highest realm pursued by life on the roadside: What is the highest realm? It is to sleep until you wake up naturally, counting money to get cramps. Someone asked him what was the lowest state of life? This man talked with confidence: the lowest level is to sleep and get cramps, count money to wake up naturally. This remark we beg to differ. We always feel that the highest realm pursued by the spirit of life should be truth, goodness and beauty.? The highest realm pursued by the spirit of life is to pursue truth, goodness and beauty, and to unify the three in one system, which is an important question urgently studied and answered by the current philosophical circle, theoretical circle and ideological circle. Of course, different ideologists must have different opinions on what is true, what is good and what is beauty, but how to unify truth, goodness and beauty in one system, it is more likely that the benevolent see benevolence and the wise see wisdom. There is no way to have a common conclusion for such a problem, and there is no need to have any conclusion, and there is no need to be fixed in one respect. However, it is undoubted that people should pursue truth, goodness and beauty, and philosophers, theorists and thinkers should construct a unified system of truth, goodness and beauty. Although I am not qualified to call myself a person in this family, we have the responsibility to discuss this important issue.? In my opinion, truth is to be sincere, sincere and sincere to people. Kindness means that people should have a kind heart. A person with true feelings and kindness is a beautiful person.? Truth exists by nature, which is truth. Truth is not equal to honesty. Honesty is a simple copy of complex processes. It is true to understand and practice the original nature, which is good, true is good.? There are also some sayings that are true, not false. The true one is the one in the Tao. The true one is the individual, the true one, and the original one. He is relatively independent, eternal, innocent, full of spirit, without life or death, eternal creature. This real person is the internal motivation of people’s external activities. The second is the subject, the unity of countless original people and the supreme consciousness of the universe. It is absolutely independent, eternal, omniscient and omnipotent. It is the source of all sources and the sect of everything that never changes. It is the truth we pursue forever.? Real things can’t be ugly. If you think there are some real things in your heart or in this world that are both ugly and evil, it only means that you don’t have enough understanding of real things and your requirements are too low, or you simply think that existence is true. What is good? Good people are not evil. A good person is also at the beginning of his life. A good man, who has heart, consciousness, wisdom, consciousness, openness and selflessness, serves the SUBJECT consciousness wholeheartedly and works for the unity of the whole.? Kindness means that it is really good for oneself and others. In fact, people all instinctively know what is best for themselves, but because of various acquired reasons, they do not always act according to the nature of goodness. Similar, Xi Xiangyuan. Human nature is good, animal nature is good, plant nature is good, plant nature is good? It is good to grow in the sun, metabolism and photosynthesis to provide supplies for life. Inorganic? It is made of organic materials, which has the potential and tendency to become life. In fact, all materials are essentially good.? Beauty means a lot, beautiful, beautiful, good, proud, generally referring to good virtue, things, etc. To put it simply, all beautiful things, touching, shock, picture and soul, all words and idioms related to beauty are beauty. Therefore, beauty generally refers to good virtues and things, which should be the closest and most appropriate explanation to beauty.? If you are beautiful, you will do good to see the truth. See the truth, pure good deeds, but no miscellaneous. Those who see the truth and do good should have high taste, make people yearn for pursuit, and have eternal attraction. The display of beauty is rich in connotation and profound in implication. It is better than nectar, refreshing people’s heart and heart, making people relaxed and happy.? The beauty is the wisdom of the true, the great goodness of the wise, the knowledge of the good, and the awareness of the wise. This is exactly the unity and order, harmony for beauty. Therefore, beauty will give people great love, beauty will give people vitality, beauty will give people happiness.? Beauty is harmony, which develops according to its own health. From chaos to orderly harmony, it is beauty. The order here is not equal to order, but refers to the state that conforms to the nature of goodness and vitality. Sometimes, the irregularity of life is the real order and beauty.? Truth, goodness and beauty explain to us the three kinds of food we need most in the world. Only when we eat, can we live truly and make our hearts clean, only in this way can we obtain beauty.? We must be true. The real meaning is similar to the Yi in the Book of Changes. Pursuit is true, not pursuit is also true. Really absolute. The pursuit of truth by science really satisfies curiosity. True, that is to say, one should be honest and trustworthy when living in the world. One should not lose his faith in others, do not do things that are sorry to others, and do things that promise others. To seek genuine knowledge. The so-called true knowledge is the knowledge that completely conforms to the objective facts and correctly reflects the objective laws. To seek true knowledge, we must oppose all false knowledge and false knowledge. According to the famous thinker Bacon, the purpose of seeking knowledge is not to brag and show off, but to seek truth and enlighten wisdom. Only true knowledge can increase talents, improve human nature and shape human character. To adhere to truth. Truth is true knowledge. In the process of seeking truth and after obtaining some kind of truth, we must stick to it all the time. Socrates, a Western philosopher, said: I love my teacher, and I love truth more. Great minds think alike, are advocating must adhere to truth. To have true. That is to treat people with sincerity or accept things with sincerity. The ancients attached great importance to honesty and thought it was the way of heaven, It is also the way of human beings. People must follow the heaven and form a sincere character. To cultivate real. The so-called real person is the embodiment of the three basic qualities mentioned above, namely, seeking true knowledge, adhering to truth and possessing sincerity. The world is real. We are all living people. In order to be real people, we must establish some kind of relationship with others. Some of them are reluctant, but we also have to give our integrity. People, maybe all kinds of contacts are maintained by one promise and operated by one trust. Once the authenticity of human beings is lost, it will be meaningless to live.? We must be good. Kindness means that a person living in the world should have a kind heart, do more good things, help others, stay away from vulgar things and do more good deeds. It is very important to have a kind heart. Once you lose your conscience, the legal and moral constraints of reality will not have any effect on it. He will run wild and do whatever he wants, many innocent people will also be hurt by him, but this kind of people will also be punished by law and condemned by morality. To develop virtue. Good morality is noble morality. In the current reality, as long as a person has a correct world outlook, outlook on life and values, he has developed good social morality, professional ethics and family ethics, and cultivated patriotism, collectivism, the ideology and spirit of socialism can be said that he is a person who has developed good morality. To exercise good deed. Good deeds are good behaviors. Doing good things for the society and others is not doing things several times, but doing things for a lifetime, which is a kind of good deeds worthy of praise. Good deeds always reflect certain good virtues. Good virtues that are not implemented on good deeds may become a mirage and die in a flash. Therefore, good morality and good deeds must be tightly combined. To have kindness. That is, everyone should have a kind heart. Because when you treat others with kindness, you are treating yourself well. Only when people have a kind heart can they have the peaceful beauty of life. When you treat things around you with a peaceful mind, you will surely find more beautiful things and face up to all people and things in the world, Only in this way can you realize more true feelings and love among people. The core of kindness is love and love. Love others as others love you. Don’t do anything you don’t want to do to others. On the positive side, if you want to stand up, you should also help others to stand up; If you want everything to work, you should also help others to do everything. In the negative aspect, it is what you don’t want and don’t impose it on others. If a person has this kind of love, then he will not be jealous or even harm others, nor will he make a living only by falling into the pit and creating disasters for others. To cultivate Angels, our. Although kindness is precious as gold, it is a quality that everyone can develop. As long as you can consciously assume the moral responsibility and obligation to the society, you will be good. Although kindness is as broad as the sea, it is contained in simple and plain details. Sometimes, it is an umbrella quietly opened for you in the wind and rain; Sometimes, it is a lamp silently lit for you in the dark; Sometimes, it is a basin of fire lit for you in the cold winter. More often, kindness is a kind greeting, a kind smile and a sincere blessing. The above three items are good morality, good deeds and kindness, which are the qualities that good people should possess.? We need to be beautiful. Beauty is a strange thing, which is objective, subjective and unified with each other. In fact, the pursuit itself is close to harmony and unity, and beauty is also a kind of kind will. Beauty is both relative and absolute. It can contain both truth and goodness. All the arts clearly pursue beauty. For example, if a game is bound to lose, it still needs to be played, because there is another game, because there are audiences, because there are still many. If the game is over, everything will be gone. There will be no next game, no audience, no self. Is there any reason to continue the competition? It is true that it cannot be decided or changed. The fate of destruction cannot be retrieved. Good means universal benefit, but now it is universal benefit. True kindness cannot be the reason for the competition to continue. Only beauty makes everything meaningful. Facing destruction, we still need to pursue and enjoy beauty. For example, in the example of the death game, both parties are performing beauty, pursuing beauty and enjoying beauty together, and the audience are also appreciating beauty. This beauty may bring pain to one side, but it is still beauty. Even this pain will become the most beautiful part. It can be said that all good things in the world are beautiful. As long as they touch our hearts and move us, what comes from our hearts is beautiful. To focus on mei xing. Beauty is the appearance beauty or appearance beauty, that is, appearance beauty, body beauty, or appearance beauty, which can be collectively referred to as external beauty. In a certain sense, only when a person possesses this kind of beauty can he show his inner beauty. To develop US line. Beauty is the beauty of behavior, that is, the beauty of elegant behavior or the virtue of beauty. Good deeds are related to good deeds, but there are also differences. If good deeds are mainly good deeds, then beauty is to make good deeds more perfect. To have maxim. Beauty is spiritual beauty, that is, inner beauty. Its core is noble sentiment, which is formed by the combination of noble emotion and beautiful behavior. Pursuing lofty ideals, abiding by the socialist moral standards and serving the people wholeheartedly are all manifestations of spiritual beauty. Mencius said that the spirit of a man who was poor and couldn’t be moved, rich and noble couldn’t be lascivious, and mighty couldn’t be wronged was the concentrated reflection of a person’s soul. To cultivate babe. Beauty is a beautiful and perfect person. The above three aspects of beauty, beauty and beauty are the qualities that beauty should possess. Cultivating beauty is the fundamental purpose of beauty-seeking education. Therefore, each of us should use our own eyes that are good at discovering beauty, and use our wisdom heart to find beauty. In a word, our words and deeds should be true and behave openly. Our words and deeds should be good, which is good for both ourselves and others. We should not only say good words, but also do good things and be good people. Truth, goodness and beauty are people’s spiritual and ideal pursuits. The pursuit of truth, goodness and beauty of human beings is the pursuit of taste, consciousness and happy life. There is a saying that getting married requires truth, goodness and beauty, and pursuing truth, goodness and beauty is the most fundamental. The water flows to the lower place, people go to the higher place and walk towards the road of truth, goodness and beauty, which is the noblest thing in life. Truth, goodness and beauty are what every one of us should have and what we should learn from beginning to end.

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Age similar to dream

[Introduction] when you are confused, you will gradually get used to hiding in your dreams. Others cannot come in or go out. Dream is like a castle, which hides too many stories of us. Maybe it is the residence of soul. That imaginary and warm nest nourishes our unbridled youth. There was once a dream that there was no air or water in it, but only a person squatting in the corner of the wall, holding himself tightly. This dream is simple and a little vague, just like the grass in early winter, creeping in the morning of November with a stubborn posture, only the only autumn leaves are no longer lingering, the wind is gone, the fog is gone, the dream is gone, so are you. How should we connect with the word youth? Is it just because of that insignificant dream. No, no, we are not grass, autumn leaves, wind, fog, and I am not you. We are all smiling and embracing each other, and then stumbling forward together. We are neither in a dream nor in a dream. We all exist truly and pacify ourselves with the definition of youth. Those so-called time, the so-called time, are 1.1 points of condensed in this empty word eyes. No one can stagger. Only in dreams can we not think about how devout we should be in front of this definition. Dream, like this, opened without reservation. In the blink of an eye, another world was changed. The whole sky was full of pictures related to youth, with different styles, but with endless dark blue in the dream. Just for a moment, I couldn’t find a suitable reason to persuade myself to have a crazy heart and promised to control my youth. However, when the scenery was good alone, I began to leisurely and perfunctory my years. It seemed that I was a spectator of time, lacking the embellishment of words and the description of feelings. I just hid in my dream cleanly, waiting for the coming of happiness foolishly. Maybe it is still too young, and looks very childish in the dream. When there is no one to accompany, I will expect to meet in the dream. But now I haven’t had a dream about youth for a long time. I just dreamed that many people were in my dream. The noise made me tired of this silent silence. How contradictory and weird it should be. The youth of a group of people is connected by a strange dream in this way. Should I have thought of it long ago, or this dream is destined to wait for the dawn with us. A little habitual sleepiness, a little eager to wake up, a whole night of sleepless are all beaten by dreams. It seems that I have lived again, and it seems that I have never appeared. Whether the silent smile is already the time when I wake up from a dream. This kind of awakening is a matter of a moment, and whether there are more wandering people on the edge of dream and awakening. Always look at the world with the eyes of dreams, flickering, sad or bright. When you are confused, you will try your best to make yourself sober, while when you are sober, you are eager to be dull at a certain time, as if you are a rebellious teenager, determined to have a vigorous contest with this youth. When we are strangers, we will try our best to maintain the pure land of our hearts; But when we wake up from the fleeting dream of youth, we are eager to completely end this dream. Because dreams are not like dreams. When you are confused, you will gradually get used to hiding in your dreams. Others cannot come in or go out. Dream is like a castle, which hides too many stories of us. Maybe it is the residence of soul. That imaginary and warm nest nourishes our unbridled youth. It can be seen that this dream is rebellious, just like the wind in early winter. And youth is also rebellious, as rebellious as dreams. We are always eager to live in our dreams one day. The youth that has been assumed for many times is still overthrown by some dreams. The difference between dream and youth lies in that dream is the protective body of youth, while youth gives dream a lot of noisy atmosphere. I want my dream to be pure white. The country without sunshine, sadness and haze hides my innocence and humbleness, and my tireless youth. The realm of no struggle with the world does not belong to me. I just want a youth romance, where I am diligent, mighty, and my dreams and hopes. I don’t know how long the journey will be in the future. We are just used to such a quiet dream and quiet life. Occasionally, a little restlessness began to be a little flustered. It was the noise of war and chaos. Without the smoke of smoke, it won the world. Until one day, we all began to cherish a dream related to youth. Then we have gone through the thorns of youth and dreams and stepped into the other shore of dreams and youth. That face was no longer green, leaving a smile that was not arrogant. That skillful calm became the main theme of life, and we couldn’t go back to the original. The artificial oath of youth seems absurd and unruly in reality. Maybe it is still unable to understand the meaning of getting old. Having the right dream of youth and talking about the agreement of 18 years old, the scenery passed by Became the leaves in the memory. Similar to the dream, but never acquainted with each other. Is it to prove that you are still young, or to beg for some so-called mercy. I don’t like this, I hate the anger of doing whatever I want, and I am uneasy about the dream that I have no scruple in my spare time. In this plain dream, I don’t want to know whether there are still many praises of youth, nor do I want to know. I just want to simply sit in front of the pavilion and watch the fog, to feel every scenery in the youth season, and to dialyze the real faces from the fog in the clouds. Maybe we are a group of weird children, or maybe it is just a way of deceiving ourselves and others. This kind of youth has entered menopause a bit earlier. The missing age has stolen our immaturity and firmly tied the calm time with us, tangled dreams and innocence are mixed with youth. I woke up in panic, with hazy sleepiness, I could vaguely feel the memories in my dream last night, the noise that never ended, and the hug that never stopped. Those strong figures with good intentions and disguises became indifferent in an instant, as if someone had seen through the lies of youth. The impeccable youthfulness has always swept the soil, and there are several who can defeat themselves. We are all children in dreams. Those ages related to youth are memories in dreams. We still remember the steps we have taken. The whole season is looking for an age for youth, but time passes by. The wind is gone, the fog is gone, the dream is gone, and so are you. This Is Our Youth, an age similar to dreams.

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Family of three

Speaking of a family of three, the society is becoming more and more perfect now. Of course, sometimes I feel happy but hide the lonely side. Before I was born, I seldom had a family of three, or I could say that I only raised my son or my daughter. Almost every family has several children, and there is also a special taste for the bustling. Especially when reading, there are several children reading together in a duplex class, which is very interesting. But now, in our place, we can only give birth to one child if we want to give birth, unless we don’t want a job or get rich and exchange a fine for a child. I am not stubborn in thought, but I still have some thoughts about only giving birth to one. It is not only a matter of inheritance, but also from the perspective of human feelings, I hope to break through 1. But this is the fact. It is difficult to change unless the country issues new policies. Seeing that there are several children in the Outlanders, they are inevitably envious. Of course, they are also worried about raising them. In fact, this is also unnecessary. In the past, many children were raised up, didn’t they? On festivals and festivals, the family is bustling and harmonious. The old are happy, the children are happy, and the whole family is happy. Now, when it comes to our children, there is only a family of three. Although it is said that the burden of raising children is much lighter, it is also a sum of money that cannot be underestimated to raise a person up in the society, ranging from hundreds of thousands to millions, it is also not easy. Chinese people do not advocate having no children, nor do they want to have children. Even people who can’t give birth are willing to raise one. It shows that thousands of years’ history is deeply rooted and cannot be changed for a while. I hope the country has a compromise, and it is better to give birth to two. Let the places where more children are born have a control. Where less children are born, the working class can also have two children. Whether it is male or female, it can give children more affection and support.

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Be yourself…

[Introduction] if you know something impossible, you should understand the philosophy of never being reluctant. Otherwise, it will certainly achieve the effect that things will turn back to the extreme. Stealing chickens without erasing Rice will waste a lot of time.

Is late at night. When all the voices fade away, I will always feel extremely lonely and hear the deepest words in my heart. In this starry and moonless night, I thought of the decadence of these days and felt that I was stupid with self-mockery. Today, when I look at myself in the mirror, I suddenly find a very strange face in front of me. I looked at it carefully, gently stroking my thin face, and found that years left many traces on my face ruthlessly. I thought, is this slim person me? I saw a pair of eyes full of disdain and confidence, but now they are deeply frowned and pale. The big nose stretches weakly. I don’t know when to add a few tracks between the temples. However, lips are slightly purple because of long-term smoking, which seems to be poisoned. Between the eyebrows, there is less expression of laziness that does not matter to oneself, does not worry about oneself. Although I was born with a face of Bao Gong, always unsmiling, and even could be called Fierce, people who knew me could feel the warmth and friendliness in my heart, and only in front of my close relatives and friends, I will unload the heavy arms. Emotionally, I am approachable in front of my friends. Now, I haven’t seen the smile from my heart occasionally for a long time, and I can’t find the unscrupulous Lang Lang laughter. Once, with a passion for work, I adhered to principles, worked seriously and acted impartially. I could say that I tried my best and had a clear conscience to the company. However, since I fell into the abyss, I was listless and unable to lead the team, which led to the deterioration of my performance and the accumulation of work, which was terrible. Fortunately, I knew my work well. Although I couldn’t do things with ease as before, I couldn’t get twice the result with half the effort. Finally, I could fish in troubled waters for a year. After a year of painful struggle, I lost my soul and didn’t know what to eat, just for an impossible relationship. Under the circumstance that the environment and situation are not allowed, it is really stupid to still want to act against the sky. If you know the impossible things clearly, you should understand the philosophy of never being reluctant. Otherwise, it will certainly achieve the effect that things will turn back to the extreme. Stealing chickens without erasing Rice will waste a lot of time. As a result, I lost love and friendship. And all this is because I care too much about her. This is what I really appreciate today. My happiness is born by her, and my sinking is caused by her. Is my awakening also due to her? I think so? When I really put down all the extravagant hopes and guesses under the helpless situation, the Lingtai seemed to be as clear as water. I saw my persistence in these days and troubles brought to her, and finally understood why she had such a change. All of a sudden, I miss the former me. All of a sudden, I really want to be myself, to live a happier life, to give my sincere feelings again, and to let myself be willing to give care and love, send out the warmth to the relatives and friends around you. I, to be myself… Live for yourself, for those around you who care about me. As for her, I have given, I am reluctant, I love it, and it is worthy of my heart. The only guilt was that I couldn’t bring happiness to her all the time, and even because of my degeneration, she lost a good friend who once loved her and cared about her very much. Now, I can only avoid her, let her live the life she had thought of and pray for her from afar, which can be regarded as a little compensation for her. Only by being yourself can you make yourself happy and cherish yourself. Love yourself, love others, love her… Only by being myself can I love her, love her and care for her selflessly as before… Although it is too late, at least for her heart, it is the most sincere and selfless… Being yourself, I think, should be the happiest.

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Do not forget peace of mind

I will never forget the four words “Don’t forget your heart and peace of mind”, which was originally because I appreciated the song of singer Zhang Jie: there is sweat on the road, the dream is not rotten, and the fate comes to the end, don’t forget your heart and peace. At that time, we would insist on searching for news and reports related to him everyday for a star we liked, and we would feel sad for his happiness and anger. At that time, our happiness and anger were very simple. When we were happy, we could let tears flow out happily when we were sad. At that time, we could let go of the scruples and imprisonment that were wrapped around us, walk calmly, laugh grandly, and let go simply. At that time, we wouldn’t feel anxious because of some smiles and details. At that time, we might not know how to explain the four words “Don’t forget peace of mind”, but we experienced it all the time. Most of the time, it’s just these words that make us miss. Maybe what we miss is just those innocence and simplicity at the beginning. It was on a test paper that I saw such a paragraph of words: in fact, each of us’s life was originally a bare land. Only later, we ‘ve been through many things after, our experiences like a flexible and sharp Plowshare, our life for 1.1 point to cultivated. Since then, the reclaimed land is no longer a barren land, and all our experiences will plunge roots into the depths of our lives and grow crazily at different times, among these growing plants, there are both beauty and nobility and flaws. Suddenly surprised by my memory, I could remember such words so clearly in a short time. Maybe it was because they suddenly made me feel full in such a barren day. It is also because of this constant experience and walking that the world in our eyes is constantly changing colors and shapes. The world in the baby’s eyes is so clear, the sky is blue, the clouds are white, the rain beads are crystal clear, everything is not mixed with any impurities. All our experiences will plunge roots into the depths of our lives at different times and grow crazily. Among these growing plants, there are both beauty, nobility and flaws in the secular world. Maybe these flaws and customs are the source of our growing anxiety. These flaws and anxieties stand on the two opposite hills and confront each other with those Qingli and noble people we want to guard closely in our hearts to see who has more patience and courage to persist, whoever wins can occupy the dominant position in life. Therefore, we, who have a good heart, are always striving to make those pure and noble become stronger and stronger to defeat those flaws and customs. All these efforts and persistence can’t escape those four words after all: Don’t forget that peace of mind is just like thinking about simplicity, beauty, cleanness and purity. We always need a simple heart, look at people coming and going in the floating world. It is said that the outside world is very wonderful, but the outside world is also very helpless. Facing those helplessness and hesitation, only with a calm heart to face, can we become calm. Only in this way can I feel at ease. There is sweat on the road, and the dream has not yet decayed. When the fate comes to the end, don’t forget to be at ease. Walking all the way, you are lucky: there is still such an ambition and ambition, a dream that can be pursued, and some people who always give courage and strength to accompany you to keep moving forward.

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Long for real

[Introduction] life gives us inspiration. Destiny arranges everything for us. To live, we must survive better, strive towards the goal, and make our due contribution to the cause of justice, make efforts for the better of the collective, the country and the world.

Hypocrisy makes people indulge, and reality makes people cheer up. Indulged in the hypocritical life, muddling and even dying may not tell the reason for one’s own life, but the life that is cheered up in the real environment may be short, it will also leave a bright life track like a meteor. I hope our life will be spent like this. Here, we can ask, as long as you are willing to follow the fate, a gentle and virtuous wife, a stable job, a life that will never have big twists and turns, everything will be there, the only drawback is that you can’t help it. Will you accept it? In order to pursue ideal and truth, how many people abandon hypocrisy and feel at ease in the present life? Maybe you don’t like the job now, but it can give you enough salary for living every month; Maybe your lover doesn’t like it now, but it can give you a plain and comfortable life; Maybe you don’t like the city now, but you bought a house here. If you leave all these behind and seek the ideal in your heart, you must bear the future that may fail. Most people will continue to live and accept the roles arranged by their parents, society and destiny. I once watched a TV play, in which a plot was deeply touched. A student from a very poor family was admitted to an art school. Most of the students in this school are rich children. He was afraid of being discriminated by his classmates and lied that his father was an architect and his mother was a painter. Everyone believes it. In fact, his mother was laid off, and his father was a water heater with low income. Once, my father bought a pair of sports shoes with one month’s salary, dragged his tired body to his son’s school, and handed the shoes to his son: Don’t you like this pair of shoes? I went to buy it back as soon as I got my salary. His son was afraid that others would see his poor father, so he said a few words impatiently and urged his father to leave the dormitory. Seeing this, it inevitably makes us very sad, and there is an unspeakable taste in our hearts. We don’t understand this classmate’s behavior very much. Can his fabrication improve the family situation? Is it really shameful to have a father of a water heater? After covering up the reality layer by layer, he may win face for him, and may also be admired by some classmates. However, is this admiration meaningful? Hypocrisy is really so respectable, and truth is so disgusting? But we can’t think so. A man who dares to show his cards to others wins success as well as others’ respect at the same time. But the reality is like this. Each of us has a hypocritical side, but the degree of manifestation is different. Because people want to survive in the society, competition will arise in order to survive, and personal abilities will be linked in the competition. Some hypocrisy is the means used to achieve certain purposes. Sometimes you have to become hypocritical under certain circumstances. People should understand the principle of the law of the jungle. Some friends are worthy of your heart. Some are just ordinary friends or can only be regarded as superficial friends, therefore, hypocrisy is only for those who need to be hypocritical, and there is no need for true friends. However, in today’s society, money and status have become important standards to measure everyone’s social status. Who has how much money? So-and-so has some great high-tech objects that are very expensive. How much does xxx spend in a certain unit now? There are great opportunities for promotion and it will be very good in the future. Some people also said, do whatever you want, as long as you can make money. You go to get a big fortune and make a profit from him, then you don’t have to worry about it. This is today’s society. Some people are pursuing the rise of money status, but ignore personal values, dreams, social responsibilities and forget the most important feeling of life. How sad it is! If the world of mortals is like a net, the social relationship is difficult. Therefore, some people feel that they cannot help themselves more and more; The fame and wealth are intertwined, and the material desires are rampant. Some people feel that the burden is increasing more and more. In the fickleness and uproar of the secular world, some people have learned some coping skills involuntarily: It seems that pride is actually concealing self-abasement, and tough words often cover guilty, self-righteous is actually a fragile will that can not withstand a single blow, only Nuo Nuo or premeditated a fatal trap behind you. Therefore, we see that our kind heart is imprisoned by the increasingly indifferent armors, but it is difficult for us to grasp its true meaning when facing others’ greetings and smiles. Life should have been real, but we are constantly using such behaviors to betray the original intention of real life, whether you deliberately or casually or unintentionally. Just as Milan Kundera said: Every time we are sentenced, we are getting further and further away from our reservation. Facing the truth, don’t be afraid that facts will destroy the building of friendship. If the emotion that can’t even bear the truth, even if it can survive in hypocrisy, it will not last long; Since the flower of love can wither in the real wind and rain, it is bound to die in the air of vanity. Remember, no matter what the reason is, never pretend your feelings. Be good at pouring out your own voice. At the same time, learn to understand each other, even if the other is weak or stupid. Every life has its own colorful movement. Real communication is actually the most effective, simplest, and most direct and only correct method. People, what is the purpose of living on Earth? That is to believe in yourself, challenge the limits, be brave in fighting, and live your own excellence. Life is beautiful, life is colorful, life is full of birds and flowers, life is filled with light veil dream, life is a song, a symphony full of beautiful melody and happy notes. Feeling life and the color of life is a brand new feeling. People living in happiness praise that life is so beautiful, while people living in pain criticize that life is so unfair. Maybe when a person lives in happiness, he will not realize that he lives in the ocean of happiness. Maybe he has never thought about what people live in this world for, because he is intoxicated by the beauty of life. Only those who live in pain can sigh with emotion deeply, and can tell the question of why people live. What on earth do people live? Life gives us enlightenment. Destiny arranges everything for us. To live, we must live better, strive towards the goal, make our due contribution to the cause of justice, and make our contribution to the collective, make efforts for the better of the country and the world. It is not easy for a man to live. The whole life is full of grass and trees in autumn. The flowers will bloom again. No matter how young people are, an inch of time is an inch of gold. An inch of gold is hard to buy an inch of time. People can’t spend their lives without doing anything. Although they are ordinary, we have goals and the direction of struggle. The value of life depends on ourselves to create. Believe in yourself. As long as you work hard, success will not be too far away. At that time, you will have a deeper understanding of what people live. In a word, deeply understand life, throw away the false coat, and return to the reality and happiness of our life.

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200 yuan, it is really just a small sum of money, but it makes me quite depressed. I always feel that this little money was cheated by different methods. Who is cheating money? Hey, you know. Every year, enterprises have to carry out annual industrial and commercial inspection. Last year, the membership fee was not required for the first time, but only a handling fee of 25 yuan was charged. At that time, I was quite confused. I was once secretly pleased. Could the charge which had been used for many years be canceled? Think carefully, no, that’s absolutely impossible. People rely on this rich extra income to nourish, how can they be willing to cut off the financial path? So I asked curiously, and the answer was that I would call to inform him later. Hey, this is not the end. Maybe they are energetic and shouldn’t charge arbitrarily, but they have to avoid the wind for the time being. As expected, within a few months, I will call to pay the membership fee and bring the digital certificate together. Paying membership fee was a thing that could not escape from the 15th year of junior high school. It was obvious, but I couldn’t understand why the Industrial and Commercial Bureau kept the digital certificate. When asked, they were unfriendly, saying that they would inform them to retrieve the digital certificate after being finished in a few days. We can only ask the final question without breaking the casserole sensibly. We know in our heart that these days may be just an excuse. Who knows that we should put it in the year of the Monkey and the month of the horse? As expected, there was no news since then. Until this year, the annual industrial and commercial inspection was needed again. We came to ask for it by ourselves, and then we took back the digital certificate piteously. Insert the digital certificate into the computer and operate it skillfully. The familiar interface can never jump out. It is abnormal and I can’t help wondering. After repeated checking, I find that the certificate has expired. Well, it’s strange. After the annual industrial and commercial inspection last year, we deliberately postponed it online automatically. How could it expire? Is there Maoni? Because for several years, the digital certificates we have kept have always performed well and never made any troubles, which is very convenient. Why does the relevant departments have problems once they keep them for us? I asked my friend and said that the situation was similar. The digital certificate I got from the Industrial and Commercial Bureau had indeed expired. Fortunately, after many times of tossing, it was very easy to re-apply the extension on the Internet, and finally I could log on again. So I was eager to have a try, but I tried several times, but failed; I had no choice but to turn to the customer service staff of Zhejiang huixin.com, and they asked us to add friends to the QQ number, Then he gave directions enthusiastically and offered online remote assistance actively, watching the other side operating on our computer very skillfully, watching the mouse arrow dragging up, down, left, right and quickly on the computer screen, which was quite hopeful, I thought it might solve the problem. A few minutes later, the customer service staff complained that our computer was too tight and asked us to operate it by ourselves; According to her instructions, we tried again, but the delay was not successful, so we even formatted the digital certificate. God! I asked my friend in distress, saying that there was no way out. You ‘d better go to the Industrial and Commercial Bureau obediently. Running errands to the industrial and commercial bureau in charge, the civil servants cut their nails leisurely, and declared impatiently that it had nothing to do with them. They asked us to go to the Industrial and Commercial Bureau of the development zone and bring the digital certificate; They ran to the development zone, and, god, their business was booming, and the team had extended to the door. Unexpectedly, the digital certificates were all on strike for help, and complaints were everywhere. I paid attention to the stuff they brought, and then asked the window staff modestly, then I began to realize that we were really stupid, I really believed the blind guidance of my nails, so I was anxious to pinch the digital certificate. Where is the information? Alas! When I ran away again, my anger was slowly flattened. Is it worth it? It takes a lot of money and time to go back and forth. Is it still psychologically unbalanced? Look at the move of his fingers, I will COPY it for you. In less than a minute, 200 dollars went into the account grandedly. What are you depressed about? What do you have? Didn’t they provide you with services? Even though there were a lot of complaints on the spot, didn’t the civil servants keep scolding and complaining indifferently? I am so carefree and carefree that I can stand still in the wind and waves. How qualified I am to face it so calmly! Is really! Gentlemen love money and get it properly. They don’t overcharge you. Be content, hey. As for the follow-up of accumulating so much, it is not what we and other ordinary people can imagine. Calm, calm, calm again!

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