Month: April 2015

Please dance lightly, my black butterfly!

[Introduction] I always hear friends talking about family members and their brothers and sisters. At that time, I will be silent, and at the same time I will try my best to find if a black butterfly comes

I am very idle recently. Maybe it was because of my leisure time, so my thoughts began to fly, and the scenes of memories were like slides in my mind. I haven’t seen the black butterfly for a long time, and I miss it a bit. The story of Liang Zhu has been passed down for a long time, and I am sad for it till now. Finally, Liang Zhu both turned into butterflies, and finally lived together. Without the opposition of the secular world, it is also a happy ending. Therefore, every time I see a pair of butterflies, I will think it is a pair of butterfly lovers, because I am willing to believe in the statement that butterflies embody souls. Especially when I saw the dancing Black Butterfly, my heart was always excited. In fact, I was always looking for it. Influenced by the villagers, the black butterfly is also considered as the sustenance of the soul left in the world after the death of people. I often hear old people talking about mysterious things. It seems that when someone just died, a black butterfly flew from his family, hovering and flying over the heads of his relatives. He didn’t want to leave for a long time when he was the first seven of his family, black Butterflies often appear. If so, I really hope that I can often see a black butterfly around me. At that time, I will always think that the black butterfly I see is the one who has no image in my mind, but it is always the one I love deeply. He has left us for more than twenty years, only a last word left to me, little sister, I am dead, you have to take good care of your parents for me. Every time I think of it, how sad and how sad! However, I often seem to feel that there are a pair of eyes around that care about me very much. They are always staring at my words and deeds. I don’t feel strange and fearful, only close and comfort. I often look for whether there will be a black butterfly, because that is the soul of my brother. It was his dereliction of duty to lose his elder brother from childhood and not enjoy his careful and considerate care. Now I feel his gaze, is he concerned about this confused sister? During the three years of high school, the pressure was invisible, but it always made me collapse. Every time I was about to be disappointed and gave up my homework to escape, I always thought of him, so persistence was always the final ending. His words I am heard from his mother, but I believe I must listen carefully in front of his bed at that time. There is no trace of time and years, only the deep memory is not relaxed! Thinking of that last words, I always look up to see if there are black butterflies flying around! No matter how great the pressure is, I always dare not to be completely decadent, because there is another soul hidden in me, a soul that always puts hope on me. Cicadas are singing, birds are singing, summer is hot, and a kind of spiritual call comes from my mind: Sister, come on! I always hear friends talking about family members and their brothers and sisters. At that time, I would be silent, and at the same time, I would try my best to find if a black butterfly came. I knew that he would not be stingy with my love to his family, nor evade his duty to his family! Maybe it was because God wanted to take away the care of our brother and sister, and he bravely gave me the opportunity of life. This kind of love was the greatest and selfless. He knew the responsibility of supporting his parents when he was only six years old. He told me to take good care of my family with his last voice. Therefore, giving up is a sin for me, and decadence is to apologize to our souls. When I grow up, I clearly understand that black butterfly is only black butterfly. However, I always look for it by my side, and it has become my sustenance. If a black butterfly comes one day, please dance around me. At that time, I will shout loudly in my heart: my dear brother! Please look at me. I have been working hard for our dream and shouldering our responsibility to our family. Besides, my sister loves you very much!

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Light and wine, where to return

Long-lost friends gathered together and invited each other to the snack street in the downtown. The busy streets and bustling crowds present a lively and prosperous scene. After drinking for three rounds, the joy of reunion after a long separation appeared on the young face. The night was dim, and friends from all sides sighed. Years are fleeting, and it is the year of establishment in a flash. Those young days have become eternity. In retrospect, I couldn’t help smiling at each other. The lights in the center of the city lit up for the second time, and the flashing of neon lights made the whole world suddenly appear hazy. The words of Happy Elements and the face full of youth became distant in this flicker. On a quiet night, there are many people going out for a walk. Shuttling through every corner of the city in groups, leaving only a burst of laughter and laughter, adding a little tune to the tranquility. The combination of movement and movement complement each other. Living in the complicated world, my heart was inexplicably lonely. All the excitement in front of me seems to be far from mine. Strange people, strange faces, strange topics, everything is so far away from oneself. Looking around our friends, there are some strange marks on our faces after drinking. Things are different from each other. The passing of time has carved some marks on us. It was many years ago that young people were innocent. There are many temptations in prosperity. If you are not determined, you will be divorced from your own nature. The starry sky under the night seems beautiful and gorgeous, but there are abyss everywhere. Fame and fortune are the lifelong pursuits of many people. In order to realize their dreams, some people will do everything they need. After the success, I suddenly found that my heart became empty, looking for expensive things everywhere to make up, but I didn’t find that I accidentally lost something, the most important thing conscience. When it was pursuing fame and wealth, it was accidentally left behind by itself. Everything has become a freeze, conscience is getting further and further away from oneself, and heart is becoming more and more empty. Lotus is also a gentleman of flowers. Out of the silt but not dyed, Zhuo Qinglian but not demon, straight in the middle and straight outside, no sprawl, fragrant and clear in the distance, quiet in the pavilion, can be seen from a distance but not mocked, growing in the sludge, but not in the same, stick to your own nature, and be arrogant. Zhou Dunyi’s Lotus, in this era, how many people still love it? Where is the way back in the red wine? The colorful world, materialistic and fast-paced life make that heart expand. In the dark night, sitting alone in one corner, listening to the wind. The coolness of Xixi blows away the swelling material desire. When you are in the cool breeze, your mind becomes clear. It seems that it has not been so relaxed for a long time! When I woke up from my own thoughts, my friend was still talking heartily. After sitting quietly for a while, I rushed home in a mighty manner.

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Face the sea, with spring

I have a house facing the sea. Spring is warm and flowers bloom. This is the poem of Haizi, and the beautiful words and mood let too many people know Haizi; Therefore, I understand that the poetic life makes people look forward to and yearn for so much. I don’t live by the sea, and I don’t have such a house by the sea. However, my house can bathe in the sunshine every day, from the sun rising to the sunset. When the room is full of sunshine, it makes people happy and want to shout out. Perhaps, no one can finally know why Haizi, who loves life so much, chose to lie on the rails. Maybe all the conjectures and imaginations are impossible to interpret Haizi’s soul; And all the interpretations may be buried in his words. The poet’s soul is holy, beautiful and sensitive, otherwise they will not leave those touching words; All the poet’s emotions are fragile and rich, and they seem to require life to be mild and drizzle forever, forever Spring. However, life will never give in to their words all the time, even though their words once touched themselves and then touched us. Gu Cheng should be the same as him. I also wrote countless touching words, and I also loved life crazily. They were all full of love and eulogized love; However, they were all so cruel that they ended their lives. Gu Cheng once wrote: the night gave me black eyes, but I used them to look for light. Maybe, our thoughts and feelings cannot realize their final feelings and melancholy; Maybe they are looking for those lost lives, or the crazy life has left them far behind. There is also San Mao, the woman who likes wandering and picking up waste, seems to never grow up. She loved her Jose and desert so much, but she also chose this way to abandon herself to the world. Is she tired of running? I really don’t know what everything is for and what everything is. I don’t know whether they love life too much, or they are too serious and harsh about life. If time can flow back, if it can trace back along the flow of time, it may be Xu Zhimo. But he didn’t abandon himself to the world, but died in an accident, which made all the people who loved him lament. I once saw his and Lu Xiaoman’s assiduously unforgettable feelings in the text of “Opium incense. Before he even had time to wave his hand, he said goodbye to the clouds in the western sky, leaving nothing but those beautiful words and moods. If it could be traced back, it would be Wang Guowei, the gifted scholar of the late Qing Dynasty. Although he no longer cherishes his life, we have to regret his aggressive talent. He was talented but had no talent, and finally regretted at the Summer Palace, Kunming Lake. Mo Dao, the pool in Kunming is shallow, maybe it is really 50 years old, and only one death is owed. When he suddenly looked back for the last time, he didn’t know whether he saw that declining dynasty again. I don’t know how many such lists can be listed. The pen in my hand is getting heavier and heavier, and I don’t want to write any more words. Even as Mr. Lu Xun said, we are no longer willing to recall some forgotten memories. I just remembered those beautiful words and forgot the author’s name. We may not know what problems they have encountered, but what is certain is that they must have problems somewhere. Or in other words, each of us will have our own problems, just in different ways. Everyone’s life is actually very short, and it can be clearly counted if you count the days. Only when the heart is warm like spring can life be as plain as water. Even when facing the sea, the spring, summer, autumn and winter of life will be calm as usual. I am glad that I still have such a room. As long as I am happy, I can spend almost every day in spring. I am afraid that if I am not careful, it will leave me far away; Or I am afraid that life will drive it into nowhere to escape. Therefore, I never ask too much for life. I can only let the water of my life flow slowly. This is enough.

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Night ethereal

It is late autumn and everything is depressed. Under the shadow of the night, I took off my strong coat in the daytime, leaving myself exhausted. At this moment, everything came along with the dark night attack. Suddenly I really want to cry, and suddenly I feel so tired. How can I feel physically and mentally exhausted without doing anything? I asked myself what happened over and over again? Say to yourself over and over again: contentment! Meet! But when night falls, hard as ice heart begins to 1.1 point melting! I suddenly became scared, afraid to face the night, afraid of many, many for a long time, not so depressed, so depressed, so tired for a long time! Tired! Suddenly I thought that it disappeared on the vast land, silently. I am used to talking with myself when I am sad, and I am used to talking with words. But at this moment, I don’t want to write those words any more. So inexplicable sadness, sad want to cry. But I don’t know where to let my tears flow? If possible, I want to string it into a string, a string of glittering and clear pearls for my favorite person! If all the tears are like this string of pearls, just like I just want a grain of sand, just if! Tears will not be strung together, and sand is just a grain of sand in my hands …… maybe, I am just a woman who loves to dream and carries dreams, but it is obvious that I have passed the age of dreaming! Therefore, when Sadness strikes, I dare not let it go against the current. Therefore, she decided to be a woman like a mother. Wrap all the things with silence, and use silence to resist sadness! Let you not see my tears, let you not see my missing, let you not see my sadness I know this is the fate of my life, I have no strength to struggle, even less courage and perseverance to stand out! Love is enough in this life! Destiny is the only choice! When one’s unhappiness can fulfill everyone’s happiness, why not do it? Invisible Tears flow to my heart in the dark night, silently. The courage between raising hands again and again finally turned into a silent sigh as soft as spring breeze and drizzle. Maybe, through tonight, through tomorrow night, through the next tomorrow night, I will get used to everything! When something becomes a habit, it will naturally follow the habit. I don’t know what is wrong or logical! Just write as you like and send as you like, when it is a washing of the soul! After dawn, everything will be as usual. At every dawn, it is the purest and most blank time of the soul. You don’t have to think about anything and you can think about anything, just like a newborn baby! But, why? When night fell, my heart was as idle as the twilight years. It seemed that everything had come to an end and lost my soul like an empty spirit. Full of sadness and sorrow! Deep Night with shallow dream, wandering in the heaven. Wake up the soul wandering in the heaven with the sound of chicken at dawn! Wake up, as pure and clear as a baby……

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Days large

On the night of Qing autumn, my flying thoughts appeared in the hazy moonlight, tasting the fragrant light tea and listening to the wonderful music, my soul seemed to rush out of the sky and pass through the everlasting time, stay in another unreal world and feel the music journey in the soul with a wonderful charm. Among many songs, only Mao Amin’s song “The Great Sky” deeply touched me and aroused my fervent yearning for my mother: my mother quietly missed you under the moonlight, I knew that I was going to come from the whispers of adults when I was very young that although my biological mother didn’t leave me any impression, I missed her very much in my heart, imagine the hardship of her life at that time, her confusion at that time, and her helpless walking on the path beside the undulating village with a baby in her arms, do you know how she endured her husband’s violence in a home without warmth and how she imagined all her mothers? I miss you! I really miss you! Maybe God let me come to the world and let me suffer the sufferings in the world. In my young heart, I vaguely imagined my mother’s shadow. I don’t know why my mother left me alone and went to another cold world. I observe this home which does not belong to me quietly, and it is quite different from that of children. At that time, the marriage was basically introduced by matchmakers, and there was no emotion at all. The foster mother and foster father didn’t have the ability to have fertility, so they adopted me until they were over thirty years old. My parents often quarreled with each other, and even started to fight with each other. I was so scared that I could only hide in the corner and cry endlessly. My foster mother had a bad temper, that kind of selfish, eccentric and arbitrary character made me suffer from hardship and mental pain that my peers didn’t have. At that time, the foster mother was very self-motivated. She was a small-level woman cadre who often held meetings and studied outside. She came home late at night. Her foster father was also busy with work. At night, they often left me alone at home. I was scared, qu Juan cried silently in the bed. Being beaten is even more common. It’s not because I’m naughty. When my foster mother came back, she took me out of breath. Tears grew up with me, and there was no happy childhood, I was extremely envious when I saw my companions lying in my mother’s arms, and it became an extravagant hope that I could not achieve to throw myself into my mother’s arms. In my heart, I always miss my mother heartbreaking. I tried hard to find the shadow of my mother in the long river of memory, but I couldn’t find it, and I could never find it. Children who grow up in that kind of environment are sensible too early, but they are relatively unsociable. When I am free, I always hold a book, seldom talk with others, and look at everything coldly. The first feeling I give is that it is very cold, I got a lot of knowledge from books. As I went to the society, it was the friendship of my friends that changed me and made me understand the true meaning of happiness in life, tolerance and generosity, and being kind to others. God closed one door for me, but opened another door. After marriage, my home was warm. I had a husband who knew how to love and care. I devoted my whole heart to love, I have devoted myself to this home that satisfies me. The husband and the son should do their duty. Dear friend: as long as mom is alive, there will be a warm home. When you enter the door, you can shout: Mom, when I come back, you can see Mom’s figure and kind face at any time, please cherish your mother and father. What a kind word mother is. Only mother’s love is perfect in the world. Mother’s love is like a sea, father’s love is like a mountain. Dear friend: If your parents are alive, please love your parents more. They have paid too much for the growth of children. When parents are old, we need to care and care for them. Pepsi filial piety comes first. Do not leave regret. Missing, Why tears, love grows long, grow over the sky, happiness is born in the heart of pain……

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How far can Our Love Go

I love you, and I want to give you happiness as a roaring salute. They said goodbye to the long-distance race of love. From then on, they crossed their fingers and walked into the Palace of marriage hand in hand in this life, the dazzling light on the ring finger will swear that we will never leave in this life. —— Is the inscription there? I miss you. QQ avatar is flashing desperately. I am a good friend. I put down the work at hand at once. I am in a bad mood today, and I want to talk to you that she is my close friend in high school. She looks beautiful and kind, and has a gentle and kind personality. She has always talked about everything with me. Later, the university separated from each other, although she only contacted occasionally, but, in each other’s heart, I have been thinking about it all the time. Have you quarreled with your husband? Well, not the Kui is a good friend, just guess. ……. We had a long screen-separated talk. Marriage, from the very beginning, said goodbye to love, is no longer a world of two people, it is the combination of two families, with parents, with life, with daily necessities, there were bumps and Trifles. From then on, they lost sweetness and passion. Love used to be romantic and beautiful. Since then, it has been gradually far away from life, and it is extremely anxious to be polished by life. The two sides fell into a new round of contradictions, quarrels and even silence. Is there love in our life? Is our marriage starting to itch? How far can Our Love Go? I think that I have paid too much for this family, but he thinks that the contradiction of everything I am should start from having a child, which is the crystallization of love, it is the result of romantic love and the continuation of two people’s blood, which means that the love between two people has traveled a long distance from now on, with one more responsibility and one more fetching. The day he was born brought infinite vitality and joy to this family. However, a series of contradictions also came one after another …… I feel very tired now. The unit is very busy every day, and I have to take care of the children when I go home. He doesn’t help me and even thinks I complain. I know, I understand you, you are tired, you are wronged not only because you have done your work, but also because he doesn’t understand you or understand you. I was comforting her, and my heart was pale with acid. Is there anyone who knows women better than women? For women, home is the harbor of life, home is the nest of love, and home is the heaven of women. Women can give everything for family, that is, to have children, to work to earn money, heavy housework, drag on women had tired, all day 2.1 line of life and told women lost self, lost passion for life, it perished for family confidence. Gradually, she began to complain and feel wronged. She hoped to get her husband’s comfort, understanding and help. Even if it was just a word, even if it was just a wife. If you rest, I will do it. In fact, only one word is enough, men’s sweet words are enough to make women work hard. If you don’t help her, she will complain. If you help her, she will love you. This is a woman who is always emotional and entangled animal. But men are different. Few men say sweet words to married wives. Men think that if a woman is married, she should be responsible for her and happy. Men have pressure, to make money, to support the family, to socialize, the burden of that family is on their shoulders, which makes them physically and mentally exhausted. They need to be comforted and understood by their wives, hoping to have a strong backing support, back home, I hope to see my wife’s smile, don’t want to hear complaints, don’t want to hear nagging. A warm home and a warm smile of a wife will make them willing to give everything. Nietzsche once said: the same passion has different rhythms in both sexes, so men and women constantly misunderstand. A happy marriage becomes indifferent, anxious, less and less happy, and the distance of love gets farther and farther in the battle between each other. Men always like to use silence to deal with women, and use silence to escape from women’s nagging, while women are afraid of silence and Cold War. In fact, no woman likes to be a dissatisfied housewife, just because they can’t get comfort from men, it can’t be understood by men. Under the state of imbalance in their hearts, they become more and more wronged and mad, while men’s eyesight becomes unreasonable and misunderstandings become more and more, and both of them are deadlocked. Under the state of anxiety, communication will also become another intensification point of contradiction. The relationship will break down like this, and the marriage will come to an end from then on. I won’t persuade others or give advice. I can only be a listener, comfort her and understand her. I know, in fact, the contradiction in marriage still needs to be solved by two people together, outsiders can do nothing to help. However, when people are most wronged, they just want to find someone to pour out their grievances. When the grievances are exhausted, their hearts will be refreshed. I am willing to listen. I don’t want their relationship to break down. How many fetters and difficulties should be wiped out during the long-distance love race for several years, so as to reach today. We can’t just beat and break up like this. I asked her to discuss with her husband and hire a nanny to help with some housework, so that she could have time to relieve herself. Family is certainly important, but she can’t be wronged, but only live herself, only in this way can we have confidence in life and love. Only when women live a positive and optimistic life can men have the confidence to give everything. After talking with me, my friend got some relief. I hope she will be happy and find happiness again. The day’s work was finally finished. I was a little tired and tired. I stood up and looked out of the window. I felt a little melancholy in my heart. It was getting late, the street lamp was dim yellow, and it began to drizzle, there were busy people rushing along the street. They were stepping up and moving forward. On their way home, lights lit up in the towering buildings. I believe that was the call of love, that is the waiting for love, isn’t it? Because of love, we have expectations. Because of love, we have tired harbors. Postscript: In fact, in marriage, if men can be more tolerant, more understanding, more sweet, less silent; Women can be more gentle, more smile, more understanding, less Complaints, don’t escape from problems encountered by both sides, don’t be silent, face together, and actively find solutions. I believe that our love will go further and further.

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End of Winter

I used to be so stubborn that I thought a woman was a vine and could never be separated from a climbing tree. Once so helpless crying: I am a lost lamb. Until one day, an epiphany came to light: no one was the tree that no one climbed, and no one could save the lamb who only knew how to cry. Buddha said: The world is so big that I am the only one. The so-called independence is self-reliance. No one will accompany you forever, and no one will understand you forever. You come to this world alone without company, and you will finally leave this world alone, let alone someone. Therefore, the first lesson in life should be independence. Economic independence does not depend on anyone. Live independently and don’t rely on anyone. These may not be difficult to achieve. What is really difficult is our lonely heart. Fluttering and shaking, floating and heavy, I always want to find my own harbor. However things change, together always parting, know each other may not be long. Therefore, let yourself grow into a tree first. Maybe the branches are not numerous and the leaves are not luxuriant; Maybe the roots are not deep and the pedicures are not solid. But at least we have achieved true independence. Eight sufferings in life: life, old age, illness, death, love separation, long-lasting resentment, no need to ask, no need to let go. When we enjoy the joy of life, we have to taste the sufferings of life. When suffering comes, no one’s persuasion can help you get rid of the pain. Only by drinking slowly, can you be enlightened alone. When we suffer all kinds of sufferings, we gradually calm down. And do not be surprised. When we leave or leave casually, the tree we stand is already deeply rooted, and the wind and rain are not destroyed. The flashy world is full of all kinds of branches and leaves that disturb people’s mind: money, greed, fame and wealth, gain and loss, honor and disgrace, rise and fall. The reason why we are distressed is that we are reluctant to let go. We are not Buddhas and cannot do nothing. But we need to remove many branches and leaves and see our nature. Truly do everything from nature, think what you think and do what you do. There is relaxation and restraint. What troubles will there be in this way? So-called world this worry-free, yong ren zi rao zhi. If we really return to nature, then the tree belonging to us, even if the branches are not numerous and the leaves are not luxuriant, is also swaying and charming. So, remember, we women can also stand as an indestructible tree. The blooming flowers of the trees are our pure and flawless wisdom, and finally we will bear the good fruit that deserves my heart.

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First heart-to-heart goodbye still

If life is just like the first sight, what is the autumn wind sad painting fan? The idleness changes but the old heart changes, but the old heart changes easily. The Lishan language is clear at night and half a night, the rain Linling at night will never complain. He ruoxixing jinyilang, I wish it on the same day. — Inscription Nalan Xingde’s song “Magnolia makes the ancient words to be the friends of Cambodia”, after reading it, people are very emotional, infinite melancholy, but it is so helpless. Poetry comes out in a female tone. Its meaning is to use the love between men and women as a metaphor, which means that the way of making friends should be consistent and life and death should not change. If life is always as beautiful and indifferent as when I first met each other, without resentment or complaint, then I will stay at the beautiful moment when I first met. As described in the poem, it would be better if people who love each other get along with each other as sweet, warm, affectionate and happy as when they just met each other. But you and I should have fallen in love with each other, but how could we become today’s separation? Now it is easy to change your heart, but you are easy to change your heart when you intercede. Just like Emperor Ming of Tang and Yang Yuhuan, I had the vow of life and death in the Hall of eternal life, but I finally made a decisive difference without any resentment. But how could you compare with Emperor Ming of Tang in those years? He always had the vow of a bird and a branch with Yang Yuhuan. The first smile I saw is still so deep in my heart. I love my love for a lifetime of spoiling, missing and caring, which is also my persistence, pursuit and fantasy of love. For many years, life has been fragile, but I still have been struggling all the way, looking for love in the hardships and hardships. In life and death, to does not abandon, the God and men couple. The reason why I like Bai Juyi’s Song of Everlasting Sorrow is that I wish to be a bib in heaven and a branch in earth. Appreciating Tang Yuanzhen’s “Li Si” (fourth) once the sea was difficult to be water, except Wushan is not a cloud poem, it is not only the language illusion beauty, artistic conception hazy. But poems and poems write endless feelings hidden in the bottom of my heart for a long time. The poetry expresses the feelings directly, which makes people can’t help sighing the emotion they first saw and the special feeling in their hearts. I just want to remember that life is enough if it is just like the first time I saw it. I fell in love with you for the first time, and still saw you again, hiding this beautiful memory in my heart forever. However, he once went through the sea, but changed the world. If life is just like the first sight, what kind of feeling is it? Every time I think this layer of heart is slightly ill, my feelings are in chaos, my feelings are overflowing, and I am ashamed. Autumn Wind Xie spring flower, Spring non-return, Lishan language strike Qing Xiao semi-, night Lin Ling final don’t blame. Meet for a short time, and finally leave. There is no result in this life, only waiting for the next reincarnation, but there is no reincarnation in the world, seeking for thousands of years. What is waiting for is only this short sight. I can’t help sighing whether I can snuggle up to your arms again in the next life, listen to your beating heart rhythm and comfort my tenderness. However, the years are ruthless, and they will leave reluctantly after all. Who can understand the helplessness and desolation in the next reincarnation? Flowers are still the same, but the heart of old friends changes easily. If you leave, I will stay, and I will still wait silently. If waiting for that life is just like the first emotion, I am afraid that I will watch empty, and my head will be white.

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Lost friendship

I don’t remember when it started. I only have QQ, online shopping and microblog left in my life. I don’t remember when it started. I save hundreds of phone bills at once. I don’t remember when it started, I can’t use up 200 text messages per month, and I don’t remember when to start. The number of dinners per month is reduced to 0…. I don’t even remember when there were many strangers in QQ… And those familiar names never flashed… It was not until everyone went to the streets alone every time that nobody knew the happiness and sadness when he went through the canteen and dormitory alone. It turned out that he, alone, suddenly after such a long time, I really want to think, I really want to think, I really want to think about those former friends sometimes, I am so persistent that I don’t want to let go until I finally find that those are not supposed to persist. Many times, I am so emotional.. It is easy to break heart… It is easy to suspect… Most of the time, I am so self-righteous.. More often, it is very fragile. Understanding friendship as love is so easy to get hurt.. I still remember that the phone didn’t ring at that time, it has been a long time.. I haven’t received the text message, I haven’t read the phone book for a long time, and I haven’t seen my friend’s greetings for a long time, let alone my friend’s greetings. When I want to have dinner with my friend, I have the phone in my hand, I don’t know that every time people want to go shopping at that end, they want to find a friend. They don’t find it until the end of the road…. Or when I walk a lot alone, I am wrong…. What should not be lost is those former friends pretending because of their own…. But it became the true heaven on each side, and they left each other because of their own misunderstanding. Good brothers, it was hard to turn back because of their own sensibility. After being injured, they disappeared. Those former friends that time, my heart didn’t say anything. You left. You all left. Friendship was blurred by the figure of love…. No matter how hard it is to understand what is around, now I understand that is the purest friendship. I haven’t called you for a long time. I didn’t know until I forgot how to send the text message. I picked up the phone and turned up those names that were almost strange. It was a reunion night. I will wish you happiness, I also hope that you will think of my lost friends. Suddenly, I really want to, I really want to have those. The person who accompanied me through this moment …… I really want to regain the friendship that I should not have lost for a long time.

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Autumn tea

[Introduction] the autumn rain was lingering, and my mood was gentle in the tea room. I carefully looked at the cup of green tea beside me, and it seemed to present the scene that duobei tea was presented to the capital during the Chongzhen period of Ming Dynasty, and the Dragon Yan was happy; I seemed to hear Premier Zhou Enlai’s praise to duobigong tea when he visited Guizhou in 1958, which was full of aroma and clear color; I seemed to hear that in the autumn world, the fragrance of tea overflows from the bleak! The autumn wind was cold and cold, and the lingering drizzle outside the window kept on for three or two days. I didn’t want to go out to play in the house either. I just wanted to escape from the cold and humid outside. While swimming on the Internet, I also put a cup of green tea beside me to taste leisurely. The bleak autumn makes the mountains and wild fields empty and sad in the light fog, the old fallen trees swaying in the autumn wind, and many lovers groaning in the gray. My sadness was permeated among the rain, my dull heart was not quiet, and my thoughts always wandered in the back of the years. I thought about the past for a while, experienced sorrow for a while, and thought about life for a while. Seeing the mist of drizzle outside the window, I sat by the computer and had a lot of thoughts and mixed feelings. I just tasted tea freely, hoping that my mood could be relieved and calm. I was born in the tea village, working in the tea village and living in the tea village. Therefore, I have always been fond of tea. In autumn, I bought a cup of High Green Tea of duobigong Tea Series. Although the tea belongs to ordinary tea in this series, it is used for daily hospitality of every household in the tea village. As long as you taste it, you can also taste the thick and mellow fragrance of domegon tea in an instant. This kind of tea can not only exude tea fragrance in the soaking of boiling water, but also the most beautiful is that the tea presents green color which makes people full of praise. Looking at this cup of green tea, it really makes people greedy, especially when the throat is dry, I hope it can moisten the throat. The only disadvantage of it is that it is very ordinary, which is low-end tea. If you chew it in your mouth, the bitter taste is much stronger than that of high-end tea, but although it is ordinary, it still endeavors to give out the fragrance to the tea-tasting people, just as some ordinary workers in our life always leave bitterness to themselves and give the sweetness to others. Tasting tea requires patience, meditation and open mind. For those who are impetuous, they cannot taste the aroma of tea. Drinking tea with a big mouth can only quench thirst, and drinking with a small mouth can taste more life content! Whether for emotion or career, we should not get the same result with care and carelessness. Tea tasting is also a part of personal moral cultivation. From ancient times till now, the tea culture in our country is rich, which needs us to continue. The Ancients integrated piano, chess, calligraphy and painting with tea tasting. In my opinion, contemporary people should read the tea culture carefully in the historical period of carrying forward the past and opening up the future, and combine tea tasting, moral cultivation and social civilization progress. I often talk about duobeigong tea with friends like Tihua, Huang Yang, Xiuliang and so on, and exchange the thick history and culture of duobeigong tea. These friends also like tasting tea as much as I do. On special days, friends gathered together and took out tea sets. Besides tasting duobegong tea and Mao Feng tea, we prefer tasting the high-end tea of this series, duobegong Royal bud. Compared with high green tea, this kind of tea is more sweet, and seems to have no bitter taste. The color of the tea is slightly mixed, as if it is a little rice soup color, and the tea is especially nourishing, especially for people with chronic pharyngitis, the effect is very good! The tea leaves are small and flat, and after being soaked in water, they show the small tip of triangular edges, which is very beautiful. It seems like a paper plane folded by children, which is very attractive. We usually use small porcelain cups to make tea. The tea made in this way is not only pure in taste, but also conducive to controlling the proportion of tea and water. If these are not done well and the concentration is out of balance, the concentration of more tea will be high, the lack of odorlessness will make tea lose its authenticity instantly. Therefore, apart from having the heart to taste tea, we need to be more careful when making tea. I went to the tea bar and bar with my friends for several times, and I was always lost because I couldn’t taste the duobigong tea. I was always a little unaccustomed to drinking other tea and changed to coffee for several times. Due to the limited output of duobegong tea, it cannot meet the market supply. You can’t see its shadow even in bars, tea bars or supermarkets, at present, it can only satisfy the local official tea. In addition, some of its high-end tea leaves have high prices, which are all several thousand yuan per jin. Therefore, they cannot be sold freely in the market! When I was frustrated, my friends always laughed outside and said, “that is tribute tea! It is because of paying tribute to the emperor. You are not the emperor, but an ordinary person! Ordinary people don’t want to drink domegon tea outside! After hearing this, I couldn’t help laughing, so I told myself that I would drink other tea or coffee. Whenever I recall the tea tasting, especially the tea tasting of duobei Gong, I always have endless topics and endless tea aroma. The intriguing words that the hundred-year tribute tea smells like water, and the ten-mile cauliflower is as yellow as gold, and what left in my deep soul is to read the tribute tea culture and feel the mystery and beauty of the Tea Town! The autumn rain was lingering, and my mood was gentle in the tea room. I looked at the cup of green tea beside me carefully, and it seemed to show the scene that duobei tea was presented to the capital in Chongzhen period of Ming Dynasty, and the Dragon was happy; I seemed to hear Premier Zhou Enlai’s praise to duobigong tea when he visited Guizhou in 1958, which was full of aroma and clear color; I seemed to hear that in the autumn world, the fragrance of tea overflows from the bleak! In the autumn season, the mountains are ethereal; In the autumn world, the tea flavor is stronger!

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