Month: December 2014

Self-Control

[Introduction] no matter how angry you are, don’t do anything irreversible. I am not angry when others are angry. I have no intention of him to be angry. If he is angry, no one will replace him when he gets sick.

Anger is the normal emotion of human beings and is healthy in most cases. But once anger loses control and becomes destructive, it will cause great trouble to work, interpersonal relationship and even the whole life. Anger is a kind of emotional state with different intensity, from slight anger to rage and rage. Being angry means punishing oneself with others’ mistakes. Being angry is actually torturing oneself and others. Don’t be angry, be kind to yourself, and be kind to others. Anger is a kind of humble quality, and the people controlled by it are usually the weak in life, children, the elderly, the patients and so on. You can achieve your future career as much as you can endure. Anger will destroy people’s good mood, and it has strong infectivity and extension. If you get angry once, you will always be in a bad mood for several consecutive days. When you are angry, you can’t suppress anger, which will stop the partners around you; When you are depressed, you will indulge your depression and waste many fleeting opportunities in vain. Anger makes others suffer, but it is oneself who suffers the most. Rage and rage will destroy people’s sound thinking ability, collapse self-control, do things that lose their senses, hurt others, and finally bring troubles to themselves. Anger seems to be a kind of energy. If it is not controlled, it will overflow; If it is slightly controlled, its destructiveness will be greatly reduced; If it is controlled reasonably, it may even generate some benefits. Being angry is uneducated, and being angry is a manifestation of incompetence and weakness. Big Angry useless, little things not worth I born. Self-denial can control anger, and understanding can control fear. Let him three points, how comfortable, endure a moment, how leisurely. Bad temper is one of the relatively despicable natures of human beings. If one loses his temper, it means one step backwards on the ladder of human progress. Endure the temporary atmosphere and avoid the worry of a hundred days. When a Ninja tolerates many things, he can tolerate them. He is good at tolerating and magnanimous. This is a realm and a kind of wisdom. If sex is easy to send but difficult to control, only anger is what it is. You must control yourself and then you can control anger. You must obey the principle and then you can forget anger. To control anger is to restrain your anger, anger and anger. Endure a moment of anger, so as not to worry about a hundred days. I was not surprised when I came, and I was not angry when I came back for no reason. It is a normative way to treat others with forgiveness and endure to control anger; Treat others with leniency and strict laws. Being good at endurance is a virtue and a kind of self-restraint. Easy to get angry is the most obvious weakness of character. Meet a smile life, yuan jia yi xie bu yi jie. If you want to live well, don’t be small; If you are good at anger, you will live a long life. The Heaven and The Earth cannot be without harmony, and the heart cannot be without happiness. People who do great things should learn to control anger. The aggressive speech is not necessarily reasonable. Self-control is the instinct of the strongest, and anger is only one step away from danger. It is not a problem to hold the fire. To properly discharge the fire and put out the fire, using the fire may not be a way of recreation. Endure a moment of calm and calm, and take a step back. One endurance can help one hundred courage, and one quietness can help one hundred actions. Anger only proves one point, ignorance. Anger is not only a personal harm, but also a public danger. We must learn to control anger. Once something breaks out, it cannot be made up afterwards. There are too many angry things. But please think about it, happiness is also a day, anger is also a day, why choose to be angry? Take a step back to the vast sea and sky, so that you can be at leisure; Endure a few words of worry-free and comfortable, and endure a moment of happiness and Immortals. The only word to endure is the best way to make anger. Be kind to welcome people, as close as brothers; Be evil to welcome people, and harm Ge Bing. Envision, anger xiaochou by myself. Anyone who has a good education is forbidden, that is, do not lose temper. Do not build your teacher because of anger, nor do you act because of anger. People who suffer losses often live, and the Ninja can be self-safe. If you lose your temper for trifles, why bother thinking about it later. People who are always angry to defeat violence, those who constantly encourage themselves to defeat cowardice, and those who control themselves everywhere to defeat selfish desires are all great people. Patience is a treasure. Once thought cannot bear, bucket wins Zhengjiang curse seems enormous. If you can’t bear the breath, you will suffer all your life. What’s wrong with letting people step by step? It’s a big blessing and no trouble. Le Taotao is in good spirit; Irritable, will fall ill; Irritable, urge people to grow old; Be good at making anger and becoming young. You should compare your heart with your heart and talk about everything. If you can look at things from the perspective of the other party, then many times you will feel that there is no reason to be angry with others, my anger naturally faded away. A lot of anger of ordinary people comes from greed and selfishness, quarrels among neighbors and quarrels on the road are nothing more than a little profit or a little damage. If you can be generous, your anger will naturally be smaller. The world may be very small, but the field of heart is very large. Didn’t you say that the sunrise in the East China Sea fell to the West Mountain, and there was also a day of sorrow and happiness; When things went wrong, people were also comfortable, and their hearts were also comfortable. To anger, must both the symptoms. The fundamental aspect is to strengthen personal cultivation, including improving cultural quality and moral sentiment, broadening psychological capacity and not haggling over trivial matters. When you learn to be tolerant, the problem of losing temper will disappear with those unpleasant emotions. Be tolerant and generous, don’t haggle over every ounce and don’t revenge. Those who frequently get angry often feel deeply regretful for what they did when their anger subsided and their mood became calm, but it was too late to regret. In the process of anger control, we should not only learn to control our emotions, but also learn to accept others’ advice and combine self-control with help control. No matter how angry you are, don’t do anything irreversible. I am not angry when others are angry. I have no intention of him to be angry. If he is angry, no one will replace him when he gets sick. Pushing others with benevolence and forgiveness can make people have a broad mind and tolerate others’ mistakes. At the same time, it is also possible not to offend others because others reasonably accuse themselves, so as to achieve the harmony of interpersonal relationship. Learn to control anger. Don’t lose your temper or act blindly when encountering unpleasant and angry things. Calm down and think twice before acting. When the angry mood is about to break out, you should control yourself with consciousness, remind yourself that you should keep rational, and also make self-suggestion, don’t get angry, and getting angry will hurt your body. Anger is a natural response to external threats, which enables us to resist and protect ourselves when attacked. Therefore, from this aspect, proper anger is necessary for survival. But on the other hand, we can’t attack everyone who irritates us personally. Laws, social morality and common sense also influence and regulate the scale of anger vent. Friends, let’s become confident and don’t care about personnel affairs, which can reduce aggressiveness in anger. Remember, you can’t completely end your anger, and it is not a good thing not to get angry in any excessive situations. The taste of life will be full of depression, pain, loss and other unknown factors. You don’t need or can’t change them fundamentally, but you can change the influence of these things on yourself, to protect you from more unpleasantness.

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Feeling lonely

In such a quiet night, the cool breeze outside the window. I made a cup of thick green tea, letting the Moonlight shine on my face, making my face dazzling and full of thoughts. The tea faintly exudes fragrance and fills in the air; I took a sip and left it between my lips and teeth; Leaving a slight bitterness, I opened a door deep in my heart and opened my soft soul, taste the scene of life. The night is quiet, let the Moonlight testify. At this moment, there is a different kind of beauty. I enjoy the beauty of loneliness alone. Let My Heart understand the emotion and pleasure that this scene originally belonged to myself. Looking back at the cloud note, I stole it with tears. The desolation that the autumn canopy could not shake the heart, the memory faded away, and the thought was already broken. Who will accompany me? Then go to find the sound of high mountains and flowing water? After thinking about the dust, Penglai’s dream broke into smoke, and his temples became Frost. Lonely window, soul is flowing in the South. Remember that when you first saw happy feelings and forgot your worries, duckweed went with you and counted the setting sun. The clothes are wet, and the fragrance is so sweet that the intestines are so soft. In front of the Jade steps, there are a variety of paintings on the ice soul, Walking alone in the clouds, dancing amorous feelings and fragrance. In this way, you will find that as long as you choose a right angle, you will have a kind of joy and excitement at any time and in any process. Loneliness is a kind of self-feeling or temperament. Loneliness belongs to oneself, and loneliness probably needs others’ giving. Loneliness is a kind of patent, only for yourself to enjoy alone. I have nothing to say about Sikong Tu’s fallen flowers, and I especially appreciate the indifferent feelings of people as light as chrysanthemum. I don’t want to know, and I don’t want to get involved in it. I don’t want to judge the Eight Immortals who cross the sea to show their abilities. I have nothing to do with what people rely on skills to eat and what people rely on money to speak. Smile to see the flowers bloom, enjoy the sunset, and build a paradise of your own. Happy loneliness, simple beauty. The silver moonlight spread all over my room, playing a light music. Standing in front of the window, I thought of the complex and colorful world I faced everyday. I suddenly felt the beauty of the beautiful day was empty, the smoke disappeared, and the music notes faded. Let me feel lonely, and fade the lonely day and night quietly, time passes by minute by minute, I am alone in this silent night, drinking a sip of green tea, the faint taste, the faint feeling, you can’t catch it, but you never feel lost. There is a faint fragrance of chrysanthemum floating in the room. The noble and clean chrysanthemum is graceful, pure and refined, and has a kind of cool beauty, which makes my heart shocked, only this chrysanthemum can be left alone in the cold north, letting me enjoy this beautiful night alone, different artistic conception, making me calm, carefree, forgetting troubles and having happiness, enjoy the happiness full of loneliness. At dusk, smoke flew in the sky and old trees were scattering in the dead days, sighing and still raising the proud head of the past. Close your eyes and cry, sobbing and sobbing. Years passed. Youth is not fading. The marks dyed with ink on the broken seal of life rainy day desolate wind blows off the flying soul dream happy frozen life only gives me a moment of bright eyes hazy pain penetrates into the bone marrow lost floating in the cold water melancholy let a string of memories withered heart sound through the boundless time and space take away the original truest and purest dream bury the affectionate eyes in the dark depth face life helpless desire for the warmth of sunshine let the thoughts pass through the boundless smoke and mist sit listening to the wind watching the rain calmly the Sun, the moon and the stars are silent in their own world, surpassing everything, calm my thoughts are flying, no scruple, do whatever you want, seek a lonely beauty, feel gratified. Happiness still needs to be found by yourself. As long as you are good at discovering the happiness of life, you will live in happiness forever.

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Night water threesome

[Introduction] my husband repeatedly said, yes, I promise you can sit enough! But it is not tonight. In a few days, we will bring the old man with us to celebrate beer festival and play games together. You and your son can play whatever games you like. We play all the games on the beach. As long as you are happy with your child, you never like to think about your age, I remember that I attended a lecture before, saying that if you forget your age, you will be particularly happy. I did forget my age. My husband almost says that I am stupid every day. I am stupid, and I am stupid. There is no way. There is a kind of person whose innocence in his heart cannot be changed. I think, even if the years are ruthless and turbid for all ages, I will be the only one! After dinner, I wore my long hair as usual, a small silver plaid suspender nightdress and a black silk shirt to accompany my son and husband to swim in the swimming pool. My husband stared at me and said, “How old are you? You still wear a miniskirt. Do you think you are 18 this year! Change it quickly or someone will scold the Street! Scold, I like it! Hee hee! I like to do my own thing and still walk ahead of the two big men with self-expression. I probably forgot the time. I was off duty when I went there. So we raised our hands and voted to drive to Golden Beach to watch Beer Festival. When she arrived near the beer festival, her husband parked the car and took the folded bicycle from the trunk. The father and son rode the car all the way to the front of the beer festival gate. The cool wind blowing from the sea blew my dress, my long hair, looking at the two big men who were almost so tall in front of me, which were my favorite two big men, I felt a burst of happiness in my heart, I really forgot my age, 18? Or twenty-eight? In front of them, I seemed to become a shy and naive girl. I excitedly raised my arms and looked at the crowd of people coming and going outside the beer festival, looking up at those flying games in the air excitedly, I even imagined boldly that how good it would be if I could sit in the flying games with my son! My son rode to me and asked me, Mom! My son doesn’t even call mother now, which is called mother for short. It seemed naive to him when his mother shouted, and he himself felt that he had grown into a man! When did you become a child? Like to play games? Son asked me. I said to my son on purpose, yes, you have grown up and become a man. You and your father should protect your mother! I am woman, the son who needs others’ care and protection really feels that he has grown up and has been exploring the road ahead by riding a bicycle. I returned once and told us what interesting games were in front of me. So our family of three walked along the beach with bicycles in the water-like night, heading forward, watching all kinds of games with laughter coming from them, looking for the childlike fun we lost. I stood in front of the luxury and beautiful wooden horse with a devout expression almost like a little girl. I said to my husband, “I really want to take a Trojan horse. I have never taken a Trojan horse once, I had never seen such a thing when I was young. I took my child to play when he was young, but I haven’t sat once. How much do I want to sit once? What do you feel like? I have been looking forward to it for a long time. This is my dream as a woman. I imagine that I have long hair fluttering, white dress fluttering, and I ride a Trojan horse proudly like a princess, I used to think that I was a princess in front of my parents, but after living with my husband for so many years, I didn’t feel like a princess. It looked like his maid, so I wanted to ride a Trojan horse once, get back the feeling of sitting in the princess! My husband repeatedly said, yes, I promise you can sit enough! But it is not tonight. In a few days, we will bring the old man with us to celebrate beer festival and play games together. You and your son can play whatever games you like. We play all the games on the beach. As long as you are happy with your child, your husband is a big Filial son in the family, and he can never forget his parents, this is what I admire most about him. I didn’t expect that my husband made such a promise. My son and I cheered excitedly. I really forgot my age. When I think about it, I always like to take the lead in everything and express my opinions, I thought that my husband was not as good as I did. As a result, my husband automatically withdrew and stood aside, so that we had a lot of opinions and contradictions. Suddenly I found that I had always been a princess in my husband’s eyes, but I didn’t show my weakness in front of him. Remember, you will always be a weak woman in front of a man. Only in this way can the desire of a man to protect you be more stimulated. It is not difficult to be a princess, and the difficult thing is not to be superior to a man, without the care of men, you will never be the happiest Princess.

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Through every day

I opened my sleepy eyes, looking at you, gentle, bright, and not dazzling. I stepped on you, walking in the spring morning. One day, it started. I served a large cup of soybean milk for breakfast, fried your favorite egg cake, and watched you eat it. It was very fragrant, and I also had a big appetite. The omelet was wrapped with the fragrance of soybean milk, which overflowed our hut. I bought vegetables empty-handed. Walking on the way to buy vegetables, I saw many people holding bamboo baskets or cloth bags. I always didn’t remember to bring bags from home. The prohibition of plastic bags always didn’t affect me. In the market, people were crowded and it looked very lively, but these had nothing to do with me. The seller was very enthusiastic and offered me a bag to pack the dishes. I walked back with the vegetables. A young and beautiful girl stopped me and introduced me how to make a woman beautiful. I was not interested at all, the girl praised me for my good temperament. Oh, have temperament well, why do? It’s better to be natural, plain face is also a kind of fashion. After buying the dishes, I like to sit in the square with cherry blossoms. It is already April, and some of the cherry blossoms begin to fall. When the wind blew, flowers were swirling and Catkins were fluttering. They met and danced in the air. The sky is the stage, the sunshine is the curtain light, and the wind is the dance music. Look, how beautiful they dance! Multi-indifferent! I completely lost the sorrow of falling flowers. Flowers bloom and fall, people come and go, are all natural things, there is no need to force. The morning time is always a little busy in the morning, and I can’t finish all the housework every day. Looking at my rough hands, I knew how many clothes I washed and how many pots and bowls I brushed. Waiting for lunch I made lunch and stood on the balcony, looking at the direction of my son’s coming back. At this time, the downstairs began to be busy, and the children all laughed and laughed. It was not like walking, playing and jumping. I have owned and experienced these. I am very satisfied and happy to see my son eating at lunch! The dishes I cook always suit my son’s taste. The free afternoon is my most free time. I can do what I want to do. For example: sleep or turn on the computer to write my favorite words. You can also go out for a walk to see the scenery or people I want to see. However, sitting in front of the computer and writing articles is my favorite. At this time, my thoughts are the most fluttering, my heart is the quietest, my thoughts are the widest, heaven and earth, nature, people are my products. The companion of fish brought back three beautiful fish to her husband. Two red ones and one flowery one. We bought a fish tank, and the fish began to live in my home. My son fed them and picked flowers and plants from outside to dress up their home. The fish swam smoothly, spitting and soaking mischievously. I looked at them, and time was no longer that long. The Night Comes at Night, which is the time for our whole family to get together. My husband came home after working for a whole day, and my son came home after studying for a whole day. The small house is no longer empty. The light inside the house was bright, and there were stars outside. The moon looked at us gently and at the Earth. Tomorrow, the sun will rise, maybe it will rain, and maybe I will live such an ordinary life, maybe there will be wind and rain, but keep a normal heart, no matter how warm the sun is, it is still full of haze, and we will go there, and our life is even more wonderful.

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Green home our warm home

[Introduction] with the improvement of people’s living standard and the change of consumption concept, people’s living conditions are becoming more and more harsh, and the corresponding real estate developers are also constantly exploring and innovating, to adapt to people’s taste, low-carbon communities and green buildings have been launched one after another. Well saying goes: benevolent Leshan, wise water music. Today, the home we are pursuing is not only the beautiful environment, the considerate and considerate humanized service of residential property, but more importantly, the warm home we yearn for should be a building full of green and vitality beside the mountain and water, 360 degrees of seamless out-of-print sunshine, leaning against the window to view the mountain, full of green eyes. The community has complete facilities, exquisite layout of halls, terraces and pavilions, flowers and birds everywhere, and gurgling streams. Being in it gives people the visual impact of the Peach Garden from time to time, and gives people a spiritual comfort of enjoying the peace outside the noise and enjoying the noble and good life. This may be the most ideal home for everyone. At the end of the 1990 s, I entered the county because of my work and owned the buildings that many people yearned for. Although it was an old building built in the 1980 s, I was still excited for a long time. I clearly remembered my feeling when I just checked in. To be honest, I stood in front of the window and looked down at the lights of thousands of houses and listened to the mess of the ears, I have a feeling of crossing time and space. However, this wonderful feeling soon disappeared. Because there is no green land in this community, the distance between buildings is too small, the property management is backward, and all kinds of lines in the yard are like spider webs wrapping every building, the shabby charcoal roof surrounding each building became a natural garbage dump. Once it was windy and rainy, garbage was everywhere. In hot summer, all kinds of strange smells in the trash can hardly open the window. I had only lived in that community for three years, so I escaped and moved away as if. Later, the real estate development of the county where I lived was in full swing, and I also moved into the newly developed community taking advantage of the house purchase boom. To be honest, the reason why I chose the community where I live now was completely to see their advertising at that time, whether it was a paper advertisement or a sand table of the house purchase department, the beautiful environment, the unique design is really comparable to heaven on earth. However, after I really moved in, I suddenly found that the so-called rippling artificial lake was just a fountain pool of more than ten square meters, and the garden design of Suzhou was just a few green belts decorated with several flat-headed elm trees. Like many owners, I have a feeling of being fooled, but after all, compared with the community where I lived before, it is already a world of difference. Besides, the buildings here are exquisitely designed, with broad vision, considerate and thoughtful property services, complete facilities for activities and reasonable site layout. Because all kinds of management are in place, all the owners who move in can abide by the civilization. A community is a big family, so happy, why don’t I take it easy. What’s more, today’s housing prices are just like sesame Blossoms. Compared with my income, those high-end residential areas with more beautiful environment and better service, I can only be discouraged. Nowadays, with the improvement of people’s living standard and the change of consumption concept, people’s living conditions are becoming more and more harsh, and the corresponding real estate developers are also constantly exploring and innovating, to adapt to people’s taste, low-carbon communities and green buildings have been launched one after another. We have to admit that modern community is not only a space for people to stay, but now it has evolved into a kind of culture, an intelligent comprehensive cultural community integrating architecture, garden, culture and service. Facing the increasingly fierce competition in real estate development, the more elements a real estate contains, the higher its quality will be and the more people will yearn. I have been to many communities where my friends live in Lanzhou, such as Tianqing home, Asia-Pacific Garden, Anning courtyard, Rhine community, Feitian home, Weile garden and so on. Being in it is like walking into the exhibition hall of landscape. No matter where you are in the community, you will have a sense of dignity, a kind of detachment and relaxation, and a kind of beauty of embracing nature. A person can be changed by the environment. A good real estate is actually a potential education place, which can make people living in it more civilized and cultured. Yes, close to nature, embrace nature, green home, our most beautiful and warm home. We sincerely hope that all buildings can be harmoniously integrated with nature, more humanized and intelligent, because we all firmly believe that living can make life better.

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To poetry friends

Spring elimination snow

Spring elimination snow, multi-the yao nian, unspoken. Reading from afar, it is just above that snowfield. The snow is really beautiful, after all it is spring…

Waiting

Waiting is a kind of persistence, sticking to a certain belief and never giving up. Maybe because of a certain commitment, or because of a certain…

Be good at listening to different voices and opinions

On October 6th, I published a travel essay: “beautiful autumn scenery”, which was obtained by many literary websites…

Read The Bridges of Madison County

“When the white moth spreads its wings, you can come to me at any time”. I think, if I am a man, be accepted…

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I read “the biography of Hulan River” long time ago, and I remember that I was really in a heavy mood for a long time. Which characters caused me…

Sick time

I sneezed one after another these days. I said someone was reading me and others said I was sick. Finally, the doctor also said I was…

On that 444

On Saturday evening, I went to the old class to play the piano (computer keyboard). My old class and I walked into the WTO. When I was bored, an avatar jumped in the lower right corner of the computer screen. Looks familiar, ignore it. The Avatar is still jumping, upset, click it. The chat window jumped out, and a boy in white with a little sadness and depression came into view. I will give you a reply after 444 days. Leave such a cold sentence and write. My heart beat rate has become 200, which is so horrible that it is more ferocious than watching grudge alone. On the way home, I kept thinking about 444. What day will it be in 444 days? What is the date of the month? Problems one by one become more and more like bubbles. I almost rushed back home. When I arrived at the door, there was a lot of sweat behind my back. I opened the door, threw off my shoes, ran to the side of the tea table, casually and hurriedly took out a notebook, opened the calendar of the mobile phone, and subtracted the number of days each month with 444 one by one, the result of the first time was on October 2nd. I looked at the answer and murmured: Isn’t it on October 2nd when the National Day holiday is on? If it is necessary, then shake off the notebook and pen, so there is no need to take care of it. Get on the Mobile QQ, fat man is online, his math is not bad, or he will calculate with him. Fat Man, help me calculate the date of the month after 444 days. The Fat Man replied to a text message. Why do you ask this? Wonder what I count. Oh, Fat Man, help me calculate it! The Avatar beat again, and the fat man said: If you tell me the reason, I will help you calculate it. In desperation, I had to tell him the reason. He agreed, then forget it. For a long time, he replied to a text message: August 12th, OK. I was shocked when I saw it. How could it be on August 12th? I told the fat man the result I calculated. The fat man was trapped in the calculation again. A few minutes later, he gave me another new answer: October 12th. I was confused about which one was right. The next afternoon, the fat man sent me a text message: it should be August 14th, if you don’t believe it. Out of trust, I counted again, not August 14th, but October 17th. I became more and more strange. I counted again on August 13th, only one day away. The fat man finally believed my answer. I watched 8 yue 13 day, no special. I am speechless. I thought, did he give me a number randomly, and I was so stupid to calculate it? Thinking about it, a sentence emerged in my heart, I am stupid! Isn’t the homophone of 444 just death, death, death? Oh, the one who made me so nervous was asking me to die!

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Self-

Whether the ego can make such an explanation: take oneself as the center, take life as the radius, and circle a perfect circle along the trace of time. With the extension of life, my world will also expand. In the arc, I am the leading role in this world. The vast universe, the vast sky, we are as tiny as dust. You come, you go, you cry, you laugh, all your joys, sorrows, greed, anger, hatred, no one can understand, no one cares, all like a passing meteor, the moment vanishes in the boundless sea of stars. We can see its flash, but no one can understand its meaning. However, in my own world, I am the protagonist. Everything is born by me and everything comes for me. Everything we do is to create that dazzling Halo and show a perfect self. Maybe, there is no perfection in this world, and everything is just imaginary fantasy, but it is because of those imperfect defects that we have the desire of constant efforts and pursuit, to perfect the gap of fate. Love comes for us. It makes us happy and passionate about life. It gives us a dynamic social structure. Because of love, we have responsibilities. Because of love, we have expectations. Because of love, we have beautiful ideas. It is an indispensable part of life, if we compare life to a boat, then love is a lighthouse, which guides us in the boundless route. Knowledge is used by us. It can enrich our minds and change our destiny. It can realize our self-worth. It is the foundation for us to control all foreign objects, let us perceive the world and let us create life, only knowledge can lead fashion. If materials are called foreign objects, then only knowledge and spirit are the true self. Art comes for us. Piano, chess, calligraphy and painting nourish our hearts, plum orchid, bamboo and chrysanthemum express our emotions. While cultivating our sentiment and pleasing our body and mind, we have created our noble character and elegant temperament, which makes us tolerant, let us be cultured, quiet, calm, emotional, and develop a different self among the crowd. We pursue love, we advocate science, we use everything that can be embellished to perfect ourselves, so never get lost on the road of pursuit, you should know that we are the dominator of all things, everything is used by me. When love makes us painful, when career makes us tired, when we sacrifice for art, we should have a calm heart and a pair of hands that can be loosened. Self is not selfish, but a kind of nobility. When a person becomes a slave of money, when a person becomes narrow-minded in front of interests, he loses the most authentic kindness, A person who despises his behavior will be spurned by others. No matter how dazzling the halo he has, he will eventually be pale. We advocate morality and true feelings, and we must believe that everything in the world is born for a kind of beauty. Self is a kind of detachment, a kind of detached state of mind, not pleased by things, not sad by oneself, not following the crowd, not following the clouds, pursuing an independent personality and tenacious personality. Buddha said: ordinary people do not change their hearts, and Saints do not change their hearts. When we face changeable life, we can still live calmly and deal with things calmly, having a huge mind is the foundation of self-improvement. When we work in the crowd, cry in the street corner, when we are depressed in trouble, have we ever thought that we have been lost in the crowd, and we have become less confident and smaller, I will fall down like a meteor. Back to our own world, we are still the masters of life. Turning around, we are still the center of time. Looking for the life with a huge trajectory is to return to the true self.

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Book Thieves and book ruffians

From ancient times to present, people turn pale when talking about thieves, except book thieves. Because book thieves are often given a gentle name as elegant thieves. A thief is a thief, why do you think it is elegant? I think this is not only the special commodity attribute of the book itself, but also due to people’s understanding of book thieves: stolen books are used for reading, while people who read books are educated, A cultured and knowledgeable person. Therefore, this kind of petty theft, occasionally stealing one or two books, seems not to make a big mistake, can not be big, let people mixed with some forgiveness factors and reasons. Scholar, stealing books is not stealing. For hundreds of years, the eloquence of Master Kong Yiji was probably the amulet used most by book thieves. But now, the cat’s eye of the electronic bookstore sets up checkpoints for book thieves, and the beep when going out will make thieves more embarrassed. The first way to steal books is to be brilliant, and the second is to have good psychological quality. Without any one of them, it is difficult to steal a book in broad daylight. Think about the situation that people stare at book thieves, everyone will have red ears and red faces. Since then, thieves who steal books can only be thieves without courage. People who steal books love books. In this sense, although the words were absolute in the past or now, most cases can also be verified. In feudal times, all kinds of books were inferior. Only with high education, how much money could a poor scholar buy his favorite books? Even today, few people are willing to go to bookstores. If they can go to the bookstore without the purpose of stealing books, they can at least prove their inherent enthusiasm for reading. Why do you steal books? There may be many reasons. The ancients had six theories, which were nothing more than that scholars had no money to buy books or they could not buy the books they wanted in the market for a while. Scholars understand this kind of mood very well, which is a bit like the sense of urgency when people who like mahjong receive a phone call: Excited and mad. Moreover, there may be psychological reasons for stealing books. If buying books is to get married clearly, then stealing books is just like having a tryst with lovers. Although this kind of game is dangerous, it should be a little passionate indeed. In history, some book thieves made some contributions. Many banned books have been stolen or hidden by people who are willing to do so, and they even pay the price of their lives. From this point of view, this kind of book-stealing people are continuing the spiritual pulse of the times, so that later historians set up monuments and wrote biographies for them, although their book-stealing at that time did not make the descendants appreciate them, but history is very fair, and history remembers them. However, although the elegant thief is elegant, it is still a thief on Earth. Although there are a few thieves like this, it is impossible to prevent them. With the development of the times to this day, the book thieves of modern edition are becoming more and more rampant. As long as there is a book selling well in the book market, sometimes even the book has not been published, the copy version will appear on the major book stalls. Underground booksellers earned a lot of money through illegal piracy. What I remembered most clearly was “those things of Ming Dynasty”, a thick set, which was pirated by some booksellers, but only became a book, and the price was quite cheap. I have read this book, and I can understand the basic meaning, but the punctuation and typos are continuous. A writer worked hard all his life to produce a good book, but was muddy by booksellers with market observation overnight. I don’t think such booksellers are elegant. Compared with ordinary book thieves, they can only be regarded as robbers, and they are openly and fiercely robbed. The disguised stealing of books makes people painful as well as distressed. In 2009, Beijing Library, the largest library in our country, suffered a fatal blow unexpectedly. Book thieves stole some chapters of ancient books collections by cutting pages and other means. As a result, many ancient books collections were greatly opened, beyond recognition. This kind of professional thief motivated by making profits is extremely harmful, just like a saying spread among the folk: hooligans are not terrible, but educated hooligans are terrible. Book ruffians, at first it sounds like a somewhat banter word. In my opinion, there is no lack of people who are fond of reading, knowledgeable and knowledgeable. Because of some ruffians, they have the meaning of being smooth, worldly-wise and cynical. Compared with book thieves, book ruffians seem to be more elegant. They don’t steal or rob, but only borrow from you at most. Sometimes, it is a little troublesome to find a good book from the market through all kinds of hardships and get into the view of the book ruffians. They will spare no effort to borrow books from the door and promise to return them within a week. I didn’t reply after a week, but returned it after a month. There was still no news until half a year later. Once in a while, there are still a few pages left, and the words will be returned in two days. The final result was that Liu Bei borrowed from Jingzhou, whether he borrowed or not. Such a ruffian book really makes me helpless. I have learned too much. Most of the time, for their elegant hobbies and devout appearance, I can’t take them seriously. Sometimes we meet or talk about things on the phone, because of our feelings, we are also embarrassed to mention the matter of returning books, so we can only bear the taste of being taken away by others silently. French Franz had an intriguing saying: Never lend books to others, because no one returned the books. All the books in my room were lent to me by others. Mark Twain said more bluntly: Stupid people buy books, smart people borrow books. It seems that I can only be classified as a stupid person. After thinking about it carefully, as long as there are books accompanying me and being friends with books, it’s OK to be stupid at all. But sometimes I can’t figure out why some people are willing to smoke cigarettes worth hundreds of yuan, thousands of yuan of wine is willing to drink, but not willing to buy books? Is it because cigarettes are not convenient to borrow, wine is not convenient to borrow, and only books are convenient to borrow? It is difficult to take back the borrowed books. This number of times may be due to the narrow mind. Every time I get a good new book, I can only enjoy it secretly by myself, not as enthusiastic as the left one recommended the right one to share. Several months and half a year later, I met those friends who love books again, and they wondered: brother, haven’t read any new books recently? Once again, I couldn’t stand the mercy, so I had to tell the recent reading situation one by one. It was estimated that some friends knew that I was not willing to borrow books. Gradually, more and more books were returned on time, and the worst thing was to postpone the time. In this way, it is also lucky for a book to play such a great role and be spread by so many people. Trouble followed on. The book plays its best role, but in the end, when it comes back to its original owner, there is no joy in holding the new book without any spirit of the original new book? The most interesting thing is that a friend of mine who loves books might be too devoted. He simply wrote reading notes on it, red wavy lines, personalized comments and books with more than two hundred pages, by his brother’s torment, the content was much richer, but the book was painted by him without the shape of a book, which often made me laugh and cry, and I couldn’t feel comfortable. I couldn’t help thinking that if someone asked me to borrow books again, where could I get them? Where is my book? People who have a little common sense will doubt that I am not the master of the book. The master of the book is the friend who has written his reading experience. Thinking of the joy of buying books in the bookstore and the devotion of carefully selecting books, I think I should apologize to my most sincere friend. This is all caused by my friends who are not good at books.

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You are not alone, and I

Winter has arrived. A few days ago, I was still laughing and saying that it was November and I didn’t feel cold. Now I heard the wind outside and didn’t want to go out to meet the cold current. The decrease of temperature makes you calm down when you were originally impetuous. For a period of time, I think you are always lonely, no one can understand you, even you can’t figure out yourself, and don’t expect others. Facing the future, you once felt that you had made a clear direction, but because of your cowardice and incompetence, you finally chose to give up. You know very well that you can’t throw it away, you can only put it quietly in your heart. When waiting for the full wings, fly to the sky that you want to go. I was confused and anxious to wait and see the way forward. I felt unconfident that no one could walk well, so I chose to retreat and enter a gamble. I always feel that I never give up when I struggle for it seriously in my life. You are not reconciled. After all, you know that you always want to run far away. Maybe as they said, you are still young, so you don’t understand. A phone call disrupted the decision that had been made after many struggles. You knew that her tone was not good enough at that time, which also made her sad. After all, many parents hope their children can spend their whole lives in a stable and happy way, and she is no exception. You have been immersed in an emotional circle since you hung up the phone that day. You don’t understand that she shouldn’t understand you so much and threaten you so much? At that time, you closed yourself in a space, letting tears vent your current emotions. You didn’t tell them those emotions that you liked to share in everything, because you knew that you were not qualified to complain about who. You only blamed yourself for being too cowardly, not strong enough and independent. The phone call with your father last night made you rethink a lot. You have been immersed in your own world for so long, unhappy, and almost forgot them around you. Thinking about your grandparents who are old in the distance, you can’t face this kind of yourself. For a long time, family affection is the softest place in your heart. Now you almost forget, only know your sorrow and happiness. You look down at yourself, thinking that you have fallen in love with yourself and don’t want to leave. Looking at those words that were once depicted by words, they turned into a satirical scenery. When did you start to choose to escape and think that your plan will never catch up with changes, so you don’t like to imagine the so-called future. You don’t like the disappointment that the plan failed, so you chose to spend every day and night without any plan and spend every day lazily. You know that escaping can’t solve the problem, but you know it. Look at their comments on you and say you are a Sunflower girl. I don’t think you deserve this title at all. Sunflower Girls will not choose to escape or spend the day and night so impetuously. Actually not lonely crush on you, but you choose love). It’s not because you can’t walk out of the lonely circle, but because you don’t want. The so-called loneliness is nothing but an excuse for deceiving others. You just put yourself in prison and imprisoned yourself. I want to tell you that you are not alone, but me. Even if the world abandons you, I will not give you up. I will stay by your side until death. As long as you leave the dark world, you will see the light. Besides, you know that there are still many people around you who will not abandon you. All loneliness is just not decisive enough, and emotions are rampant. If the backlight is too long, you will not be a Sunflower girl. I know you are as smart as you, and you will understand.

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Spring elimination snow, multi-the yao nian, unspoken. Reading from afar, it is just above that snowfield. The snow is really beautiful, after all it is spring…

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