Month: September 2014

Gain and loss are mood

When I no longer shed tears for my contribution in the morning, the growing years make me no longer feel regretful, and the growing years let me know and know that I have given too much, the melodious melody and soothing rhythm make my heart flow with it. Growing up is a book, a story, and even the accumulation of causes and consequences. Gain and loss are all states of mind, and I think it is obtained, then it is obtained; I think it is lost, then it is lost. Everything in the world is dialectical, and gain and loss are determined by state of mind. Example: We caught a rabbit, and others thought that we got the delicious rabbit meat, so we could have a big meal. But for the son who loves baby rabbit, I was too cruel to kill for food, the mother rabbit lost her children and was extremely sad. In other words, life cannot have the best of both worlds. You should choose between Gain and Loss. Don’t take chances on something or something. You should look at problems in a different perspective and mentality, so many difficult problems have been solved easily, and they will not stick to the horn, which will lead to spiritual decadence or collapse. When I was young, I criticized my education career repeatedly, saying a few words that I couldn’t hear, thinking that I was born at a wrong time and had a bad luck in the exam, which made me turn a big corner, back to the teaching points of life, I hold too many complaints about my own life, and subconsciously, I hope to have the momentum of others’ prosperity. However, looking back, I slowly looked at the winding growth path I had gone through, and found that my advantages were greater than my shortcomings. Good luck was greater than bad luck. I was just about to study hard for my failure, when I saw newspapers, magazines, novels and other books, I would browse carefully and write down my experiences; Just because of my low salary, I began to browse and write online, the remuneration comes with a flurry; I can grow vegetables, weed the fields, and do all kinds of work. I have a wide range of interests. I will go up the mountain to pick fruits, go down the river to catch fish and touch screws, I never pick and choose for the strength of labor. I am a good cow, I am willing to listen to others’ sincere orders. Just for my harvest, my happiness condenses my too much sweat. Therefore, I know that it is not easy for everyone to be human. Therefore, I show filial piety to the elderly, respect the elders and treat my colleagues with courtesy. I don’t like the mutual run between colleagues and the violation between superiors and subordinates. I am eager for sincerity. Therefore, what I met was almost Sunshine. My friends admired my happiness and openness. I said that they couldn’t give up too many common things, so they were under heavy pressure, which made them hard to breathe, broader picture. My husband said that I could not see other people’s small actions clearly because of myopic eyes. I said: let them go! Both gains and losses are in the mind, as long as the heart is right, it doesn’t matter how much you get. Therefore, I am still happy. There are a lot of children in my class. The parents said that the dark Group was annoyed when they looked at them. I said that the children were as quiet as a clock, moving as a rabbit, energetic, capable, and disciplined, I like it. Almost teachers are afraid of class, but I feel different. When I am free, I will have classes, have fun, chat with children, absorb their vitality, listen to their innocence and discover their pride, when entering their space, I feel that I am rejuvenated, so why should I take the medicine of immortality. Life is like running water, which is natural and smooth. What I pursue is the perfection of the process, not how much I get. Let nature take its course and everything will work.

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Persistent life

In one’s life, there will always be many past events, either happy, sad, proud of his career, frustrated in love, wonderful, or gloomy. It is often impossible to let go between gain and loss. Sometimes, the more deliberately you want to forget some people and things, the more you find that he (it) has been engraved in your heart, leaving imprints. In fact, it is just an illusion caused by people’s persistence. The reason why people have joys and sorrows is the psychology of seven emotions and six desires. Once I heard a boss always saying verbally, “as long as there is a requirement, there will be pressure”. It is not unreasonable to hear it. Just because of desire, people will put pressure on themselves invisibly. Therefore, when the situation is not satisfactory, people will feel depressed and even want to turn the tide, making themselves under heavy pressure and mentally weak. People have desires, which are inevitable. As long as they don’t go too far, desires can make a person strive for progress and strive for perfection, but do not turn desires into greed. Greed together, if you can’t get what you want, will burn your body with desire, make people lose their senses, make actions against conscience, harm others and harm yourself, and finally do not end well. Buddhist scriptures often refer to the common heart, which is nothing more than hoping that the world can take all people, things and things lightly, treat all things with a common heart, and do not cling to the relationship between possession and loss. If decree by destiny, Trinidad will meet, not also available. If there is no chance, even if you pass by, you may not know each other. Forcing will only make you more sad. Everything has two sides. Persistence and obsession are just a slight difference. To outsiders, a person may be too persistent and confused to see the truth clearly. To the litigant, it was an idiot, a passion for a thing or a person, a sincerity, and a love to the extreme. Without persistence, there would not be many great inventions in history; Without persistence, there would not be a beautiful tragedy of Butterfly Lovers in the world. Some people are obsessed with perfection, and all things with flaws are picky, which makes people mistake them as a freak. Some people cling to the pursuit of ideals and put down everything in front of them just to complete a dream of nothingness. If you are lucky, dream come true, if unlucky, uncorrupted. Some people, clinging to money and luxury, in the eyes of philanthropy, have no money to talk about, without money can not make him grind. Some people cling to feelings and regard friendship, family affection and love more important than anything else. Life is the persistence filled with many desires, which can be big or small, or more or less. Clinging to love is a kind of idiot, a kind of stupid concept, or a helpless innocence. I thought that if I love sincerely, strongly and selflessly, I would move the heaven and exchange for a lifetime of love. But I don’t know that love needs the match of fate and the cultivation of previous life, which will last for a long time until the sea dries and the rocks crumble. As the saying goes, if you have to sleep together for thousands of years, you can only live in the same boat for hundreds of years. If you insist on love without ending, it is just a virtual dream all the time. You are so tired that you can’t sleep well, hurt yourself and feel. What I feared most was that the love had not vanished, and the heart of sex had already risen. As a result, tragedies had been staged and countless innocent women had been destroyed. If there is less persistence, will there be less wonderful stories and less repetitive plots in the world? If everyone in this world could face everything with a normal heart, the world might not have so many disputes, but just waste this life in a plain way. I think persistence is not bad, but don’t go too far. Once you step over the boundary, you will no longer be persistent, but be possessed. And have I been possessed?

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Waiting

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Sick time

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Fate (the other two)

Life is so short that we are eager to release our dreams when we are young. Unconsciously, we are looking for the best years of our own in the sound of the gradual passage of time. I don’t know how many years later, at the moment when you suddenly look back, do you still remember my vague appearance and whether you are still moved by the Green years. Fate is as light as the wind. I am always longing for each other’s fate like a person who falls into the water desperately grasping straw in my dream. However, after all, I still couldn’t catch it, just like tears when I woke up. Tears are meaningless crying, and all living beings are equal. Because of too much desire and too far search, fate will be even lighter. The dead is like this, the river flows eastward, as if the scenery is beautiful, everlasting and quiet, but in such a hurry, I was caught off guard. Close at hand, it passed away quietly. [Streamer] go to Jiangdong, and the waves will run out. The diagnostic handbooks, bu she zhou ye. Time is like running water, flowing forward silently, irrevocable in the rising and falling of the Sun, in the colorful and dim star glow. The greatest power in the world is the power of time, because of his irresistible, because of his never returning no matter how glorious and beautiful a person was at a certain moment, in the end, he will grow old in time and settle in the dust of history. Even if the spring breeze is proud of horseshoe disease, it will eventually become loess; No matter how rich a person was, he will eventually disappear in time, melt into nature, and the money will eventually be owned by others. It seemed that people were born here and died in this place. A dream was deduced in the change of time. The prosperity and decline of the past were the vicissitudes of time. Creation creates human beings. Human beings are the most elf species in the world. They can feel the changes of four seasons and the alternation of sun and moon. However, it is difficult for ordinary people to experience the gradual flow of light. Gradually, it is a change unconsciously. The figure of a child goes away unconsciously, and the world begins to become complicated unconsciously. The temples add frost and snow unconsciously, and the passion of the past fades, unconsciously, he was so old that he shrank into a wood carving in the corner of the warm sun in winter. Until this moment, he suddenly woke up: he was really old! Looking back on the past, my whole life was young, young, middle-aged and old, just like flashing scenes passing by quickly. Things that seemed to be in yesterday were very close; Things that were very far were clearly many years ago. Sigh in memory: Alas, life is really very short! In fact, people’s life is very long. We just numb the changes of time in the gradual progress of time. When we find it, it will be many years later. It seems that our changes are completed in a flash, so we have the emotion between our fingers and hands. Go to Jiangdong, and run out of waves. The dead is like a husband. I woke up early in the afternoon of night and night [the night morning Eagle]. The solar term has reached late autumn, and the weather is very short. When getting up, the afternoon sunshine was loafed into the courtyard of the patio, and the white walls around reflected the light yellow sunshine, which was a tranquil and peaceful atmosphere. In my spare time, I always have no heart to feel the beauty of this God-given life. When I found it in my short spare time after work, I was not allowed to do more, enjoy it more deeply. About half an hour later, I have been to my workplace. After a short rest, we started our own work. At this time, the sunset had hidden under the earth, but the curtain of the night had not completely covered the vacant world. Soon, the night became heavy without breath, and the high-pressure lights in the freight yard gave out a bright yellow and gloomy red glow, shining on every inch of my work. These blooming bright lights will shine on the whole night and will accompany me faithfully tonight. The long night is full of tranquility and noise, as if being in a lonely dreamland. However, the roar of machines around clearly shows the extraordinary bustle. The bustle annihilated the silence and everyone. I looked up around occasionally. Everyone was doing their own work, and nobody paid attention to others. The atmosphere at night was easy to make people inertia indifferent. In this inertia indifference, I suddenly felt how insignificant people were in the endless night around. Thousands of years ago, a literati traveled to Red Cliff and sighed one of the sea chestnut, and the night tonight also made people sigh with emotion, as if the ancients had gone after a thousand years of reincarnation, leaving only such a sentence, such a state of mind gives the latter taste when the long night is coming to an end, when the black wings of the long night gradually remove its great curtain, the light of a new day will shine on the Earth. In other people’s dreams, I worked for a night. I realized the difficulty of life in the dawn. Several years later, when I recall me at this moment, I should thank tonight, because it makes me understand more deeply the meaning of the difficult life. These four words alone, it makes me respect and tolerate others more reasonably and understandably! The breeze in the morning blew out the dawn, and the feeling of numbness shrouded in the long night suddenly disappeared, just like the desire to wear out of the East China Sea suddenly rose, although I don’t know what I desire at the moment. Just when I had this kind of mood at this moment, I raised my head casually and it flew into my sight. It glided in the air, but never flew away from my horizon. Finally, it stopped on the steel frame not far from me. This is an Eagle, an eagle that I don’t know where it came from. The place where I work is near the sea to the east. The dense trees on the shore are uneven and thousands of grass spreads. Pine trees are the majority in the forest. Pine leaves are like needles and pine branches are like covers, which are very suitable for the reproduction of small animals, perhaps it was the reason of this aspect that this eagle flew here to seek. There are all kinds of things in the world, which are endless and busy because of life, just like me, just like this eagle. I work tonight for life, and the Eagle leaves the nest for food for livelihood. In my memory, the eagle is low-spirited on the Hill, and it is said that the eagle is nested in the cliff. I looked towards the south and found that there were dense villages, and in the distance there were hazy mountains. Although The mountains were not very high, I thought, the nest of this eagle should be somewhere there, right? In that secret place, there is the concern of this eagle. My eyes swept over the village with smoke curling in the morning. Through the thin and misty mountain, I seemed to see the hanging nest on the cliff. There were two pairs of ignorant and sleeping eyes in the nest, I seemed to see a pair of gentle wings firmly guarding the hope of this eagle. As for the eagle in my vision, it didn’t know where the food it was looking for was hiding. However, it flew away suddenly, towards the deep forest and disappeared, disappeared in the sight I saw, and I knew it went to the place where the hope it pursued. The first ray of sunshine of the new day turned to the Earth, and I stood in the sunrise. Suddenly, I felt like I was standing in hope. Although everything was unpredictable in the future, as long as I pursued, as long as I don’t give up, just like the Eagle who just left me, hope will be closer and closer to me until one day, I can reach it

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Sick time

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Life is like driving

The weather is getting cooler. When I woke up this morning, I was waked out of the window. The cold morning wind was ruthlessly involved in the bed, waking me up. I opened my eyes and didn’t see the long-desired Dawn. What I saw was a dark sky full of sorrowful clouds. This kind of weather makes people feel lazy most, and it makes people feel unexcited most. When I drove to the company, my eyes were full of confusion. Although the air in the car has been adjusted to the minimum, I still feel the chill invading my heart. The wipers kept swinging left and right, and the music in the radio was intermittently caught in the raindrops on the top of the car, interlacing into a bleak rhythm. The depressed emotion for many days was stirring, and the chest was filled with a lot of helplessness and pain, which came out immediately. What blurred my sight was that the salty and ruthless tears gathered in my eyes, just like morning dew, crystal clear. I held back my grief and didn’t let it slide down the rough and dry cheek. Since I decided to be myself, I must firmly stop crying and try my best to smile to face a more difficult future. I know that as long as I wipe away the tears in my eyes, I can see the road ahead more clearly like a wiper, which is not beyond my imagination. Although the road is slippery, as long as you are careful, you will reach the destination safely. It reminds me that life is like driving a car. As long as I can control my car, although I can’t say it must be smooth, I will surely reach the destination smoothly. As the saying goes, be careful to sail for ten thousand years. Occasionally, when the vehicles passing by, passing through the water on the road, splashing ruthless spray on their own windscreen, suddenly, it was like falling into a deep pit and couldn’t see the surrounding scene clearly, people caught off guard. Calm people, understand that it is just a moment of hazy, grasp the steering wheel, relax the accelerator, after everything is cleared, recognize the direction and move on. A timid person will be shocked in a cold sweat and be at a loss for a moment. Some people, in addition to fear, turn the steering wheel randomly, or even make an emergency brake, resulting in a crash and causing a huge disaster. In fact, life is like driving. The older you get, the more stable and safer you are. Experienced drivers, like the elder who has been through half a hundred years, know how to look around, listen to all directions, pay attention to the situation around, and prepare for sudden changes at any time. When the event occurs, it will deal with it calmly. The person who just got the driving license is just like a young man who doesn’t know the height of the sky and the world. He often despises the true meaning that the road is like a tiger’s mouth, drives drunk, moves forward rapidly, regardless of the safety of other users, rampage. When something was not expected, due to lack of experience and unclear direction, we had to make a choice with our own panic thoughts. Whether it is right or wrong depends on the arrangement of fate. However, those who are experienced but think highly of themselves or think highly of themselves still make wrong judgements occasionally and put themselves in trouble. I thought that I had taken good care of and had a good chance to win, but I ignored that there was no absolute reason in the world. I was dragged down by careless drivers around me and had an accident. Therefore, we will see some people who are not as good as middle-aged people, because of a temporary mistake, they will lose their reputation and even their families will be ruined. However, some people are not as wise as the saying goes. They often make the same mistakes, continue to overspeed, continue to drive in danger, and finally reach the road of no return. Today, I can say such a truth, does it mean that I can see the surrounding environment clearly and know how to deal with everything? Not necessarily. Therefore, there is also a saying that “it is easy to know and difficult to do”, which is not unreasonable.

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Smile every day

Yesterday, Youlan wrote an article named “smile to good mood”. The process of writing was really a joy! Youlan smiled while tapping the keyboard, and couldn’t close his mouth. To be honest, I laughed so much that my saliva dropped on the keyboard for several times and wiped it with tissue paper for several times. After the article was published, a friend sent a message saying: Youlan, you are really bad! Reading your article, I almost got angry after laughing! Close! Youlan is most afraid of something to do with friends, but it can bring some fun to friends and make friends understand something. Youlan is really happy. Therefore, when doing housework, I will laugh when thinking of it. My lovely husband, it seems that something is wrong with me, shouting: It’s crazy! Like a silly elder sister, do you want to take you to see a psychologist! Cups! He can’t share the happiness of Youlan! I am too lazy to talk about him. I can enjoy myself. I will face my every day with a smile! My friends who know me often say that I have a good mentality, and I am really pleased after hearing this. After decades of ups and downs, how could it be smooth? Perhaps it is because of a good attitude that we can live a healthy and happy life. Laughing is a day, crying is also a day, it is better to laugh, laughing is better than crying! Who doesn’t like to see a happy person? Who is willing to face a sad face? I once read a story that an old lady was worried about her son who sold umbrellas on sunny days, and worried about her son who sold straw hats on rainy days. She was unhappy every day. When others enlighten her, she should be happy every day. She has a son making money every day. From then on, the old lady was happy every day and spent her whole life happily. In fact, when something goes wrong, you have a good attitude, positive and optimistic thinking. If you think about the advantages and the disadvantages of a thing, you will get different conclusions and your mood will be different, whether you are happy or not depends entirely on your own thoughts. Youlan also often encounters unhappy things. Every time I think of that story, I feel more comfortable. However, there is a more important reason for deciding the good mentality of Youlan. That is, Youlan has a wide range of interests and hobbies. Of course, they are all healthy and upward hobbies, and low-level interests have no relationship with Youlan. Those hobbies enrich every day of Youlan, making Youlan laugh at every day. It’s not a secret either. If friends don’t feel that it takes a lot of eyes to see Youlan’s words, they might as well tell them that they may get some enlightenment from it. Orchids hobby traditional Chinese medicine. 8 years ago, mother of body almost being a doctor sentenced to death, said lung cancer with terminal. Faced with the risk that the operation may not work on the operating table and the cruel chemotherapy after the operation may be successful, Youlan resolutely decided to give up the operation and take her mother back to her hometown for conservative treatment regardless of the opposition of her brothers. Youlan didn’t believe in science, but didn’t want to see her mother lost her mother’s love suddenly because she couldn’t go down the operating table. So Youlan bought several prescriptions of Medicine, studied carefully and made a record of selection. According to the requirements of the prescription, the medicine should be given as much as possible to let the mother take it. After all, she could accompany her mother and finally let her live a comfortable life. I don’t know whether it was the doctor’s mistake, or the filial piety of Youlan moved the god. My mother recovered magically. Until now, Youlan can still enjoy the maternal love happily. Since then, the extensive and profound traditional Chinese medicine has opened the door for Youlan. In addition to looking at Chinese herbal medicine prescriptions, I also learned human Meridian. Massage, scraping, drawing, moxa, Youlan will be a little bit. I remember when facing hundreds of acupuncture points at the beginning, Youlan was memorized with eagerness. Sometimes when she woke up at night, she remembered that the position of an acupuncture point could not be grasped correctly. Therefore, looking at the scumbag of Meridian in front of the bed, she looked for it on herself and then on her husband, after finding the right one-click button, my husband was often scared to wake up from his dream and shouted: what a monster! Middle of the night without sleep! Youlan had many ways to deal with her husband, and he would say gently immediately: just sacrifice for a moment, be a test product of your wife, and be the right to invest. When your wife learned it, you will have a family doctor when you get old, special nursing! My husband was speechless and fell asleep peacefully. Orchids hobby table tennis. Playing table tennis Orchid is a halfway monk, and I started to learn it at the age of 30. When I saw my colleagues playing basketball that year, Youlan felt more itchy and her hands felt more itchy, so I began to learn to play basketball. A 50-year-old female colleague is an old educated youth in Shanghai. She plays the ball very well and is good at cutting, buckling and lifting. She became the coach of Youlan and practiced with her every day. I really taught my apprentice and pissed off my master. A year later, when the school teacher played table tennis, Youlan won the first battle and won the coach at once, winning 3-0. Of course, after all, the coach was old and Youlan was young at that time. Now, none of the female colleagues in school beat me, and none of the male colleagues beat me. However, Youlan doesn’t care about winning or losing, and what he cares about is the incisively and vividly playing in the process of playing ball. Every time he plays a good ball, he will always bring happiness. Youlan likes to make PS pictures, that is, picture synthesis. Before the Spring Festival, a netizen sent an emoji picture made of his own photo, which was very unique. Youlan felt itchy again, so she downloaded PS software, watched video teaching materials on the Internet, and soon learned it. During that time, Youlan happily changed his photos into various beautiful backgrounds every day. No matter what the background is, you can find it in Baidu. Wherever you want to put yourself, the sea, the mountains, grassland Heaven and hell are all OK, but the horrible land orchid doesn’t like it. Not only can you make your photos beautiful, but also you can imagine taking photos with celebrities. Youlan once made a photo of her husband with Obama. Funny. The appearance of Youlan is not very good-looking, but after the processing and production of Youlan, all of them are beautiful women in the photo album, but they are no longer like themselves. If your friends trust Youlan, you can also ask Youlan to make it to ensure its beauty. There are spots and spots on your face, wrinkles and wrinkles, single eyelid becomes double eyelid, and you can also get two dimples. As long as you are willing, Youlan will be happy, but if you are done well, it is still not you in the photo, and Youlan can’t be guaranteed. Of course, Youlan also works for free. Like editors in good mood, Youlan is willing to give. I just talked about one, two, and three. In fact, Youlan has many hobbies. I am afraid that it will cost your eyes. I will not talk about it in detail. A wordy woman is annoying, let’s just say it briefly. Sometimes Youlan will dance in the square with a group of elder sisters and sisters, old men and old women. It will be cool if you sweat profusely and take a shower. Sometimes Youlan will stay at home and do yoga with soothing music, enjoy the tranquil serenity in breath and breath; Sometimes I will sit in front of the piano and practice for a while against the tadpoles on the staff until a bullet is smooth and pleasant; sometimes I would pick up the writing brush, draw a stroke to the copybook, and write a few big characters of Willow body which are not too ugly; Sometimes I would play Chinese chess on the Internet, of course I was not good at it, and I had always been a scumbag; sometimes I also play the game of table tennis. The skill is good. I have already scored more than 3000 points. However, I don’t know what else I will like after I have never played it in a good mood. But Youlan accepts new things quickly, with perseverance and perseverance, as long as you want to learn anything, it will be difficult. Friends often say to Youlan: Why are you always happy when you see you laughing? Now many people feel great pressure and cannot escape from loneliness. Won’t you feel lonely? I couldn’t help laughing: No, contented people should have nothing. Youlan is contented and has no high requirements for life. Besides, Youlan has so many hobbies. If you pick up one casually, you will be busy for a long time and enjoy many days. How can you have time to feel lonely mood? Of course, I am not willing to calm down to be sentimental, thinking and looking for troubles. At work, I spend all day with children, busy and fulfilling in a simple environment, which is often spent in children’s innocent laughter. Can Youlan be free from infection and laugh happily with you? Youlan attaches great importance to friendship, and is honest to meet each other. Treating others sincerely is the principle of Youlan’s life. The trust of friends often comforts Youlan and gets help and encouragement from friends. Youlan is often moved to smile with tears. Youlan knows how to cherish and is willing to give up. Everything that shouldn’t be persisted will never be stubborn. Everything that can’t be kept goes with the fate, let nature take its course, and the sand that can’t be held simply raises it. If you give up, you will get it. If you give up, you will feel sad. If you get relieved, can you laugh uncomfortably? Having said so much, is it optimistic and optimistic that whether the orchid you laugh at every day has appeared in front of you? Can you get some enlightenment from Youlan, and put aside the temporary difficulties in your life and smile optimistically to your every day?

Like (prose editor: Jiangnan wind) the snow in spring

Spring elimination snow, multi-the yao nian, unspoken. Reading from afar, it is just above that snowfield. The snow is really beautiful, after all it is spring…

Waiting

Waiting is a kind of persistence, sticking to a certain belief and never giving up. Maybe because of a certain commitment, or because of a certain…

Be good at listening to different voices and opinions

On October 6th, I published a travel essay: “beautiful autumn scenery”, which was obtained by many literary websites…

Read The Bridges of Madison County

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I read “the biography of Hulan River” long time ago, and I remember that I was really in a heavy mood for a long time. Which characters caused me…

Sick time

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Time of pendulum

Walking at the crossroads, walking aimlessly, looking at the intersection and the street, everything is so familiar and strange, where to go and where to go. I always feel that such a street, such a crowd of people are familiar, and also like strangers. When walking to the end of the roadway, I felt that it was a forest path leading to the countryside. If I didn’t turn around, I would go further and further, and it would be more difficult to return. As a result, the moment I turned around in a hurry and turned around the head of the car body, the eyes of pedestrians gathered together, with a kind of suspicion and divergence, it is especially like looking at the monsters walking out of the remote mountains, and the eyes looking at people are also spicy and strange. What are you looking at? There are so many people coming and going, I am the only one, and I am the only one who need to keep an eye on me. Back to the starting point of a fork, and then to the secluded lane of another path, where are all the buildings so similar to the archway of the street, do you want to move left or right or even in a backward direction. Go back. If you want to go back, you have to go back to the original starting point, and then go to another destination. Yes, go back like this, go back to the original place of the starting point, and then go in the opposite direction. Oh, yes, yes, I finally saw the pendulum standing above the city, that is, the height of the pendulum standing above the city, in the spirit of rotating speed of day and night and time, people who are guiding the routine day and night. It is also because of the guidance of TA that people in good times do not get lost, and people in adversity do not spit on the spirit of moving forward towards their own direction and target value, go on the voyage running on the road. Let the people who are moving forward find their own position and value more effectively, and know the starting point and ending point of human nature and the light they are going.

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Blue Yan

Lan Yan’s bosom friend can be disguised as brothers and sisters. It is the relationship that the other side does not regard herself as a woman, nor does he regard the other side as a man. In fact, the more constant restatement like this, the more worried he will take that step. I don’t belong to family affection, friendship, or love in her. I just belong to the unique attachment and thinking among my buddies. Maybe a letter can make people sleep soundly, maybe a vulgar exhortation can not be no longer vulgar, but it can cause heart ripples. She said we were brothers, not brothers and sisters. I know, I understand. She has a boyfriend, and I am nothing to her. We can call the phone until the phone is dead, we can pour out our thoughts, we can feel heartbroken for each other, but we are nothing. She said that I am the person in her spiritual country. We are all secular men and women. We doubt love, fear love and deny love, but we can’t stop and desire and expect love without exception. In this restless era, under the surface of peaceful life, the dark tide surged. Under our well-dressed appearance, there is a restless heart. Under the elegant and docile appearance, there are Turbulent Hearts hidden one by one, expecting unusual things to happen at any time, ready to break the original state at any time, waiting for rebellion or derailment all the time. And we have to admit that we are ambitious but timid. Although we have 1000 kinds of 10,000 kinds of wonderful assumptions, we still squatted on the spot honestly and stopped. We are reluctant to create those happiness carefully, and we are more afraid of the bondage of responsibilities and emotional entanglement. At a certain moment, you may appear at a certain moment, pause or stay in my life. We flirt, we are emotional, but we will never love each other. We talked freely, we were presumptuous and happy, we showed almost perfect in front of each other, and from each other, we even found a recovery of youth. We talked about everything, we cared about each other, and we were tacit. However, we never broke this relationship. In our lifetime, it was so dense. We need the feeling of love and being loved, the ambiguous feeling mixed with love and love, the slight bitterness and melancholy, and the secret happiness and joy that no third party can feel except each other. We love love, love the process of indulging in love, wandering in love, enjoying in love, missing in love and even crying in love, but we don’t like to clean up the feather left by love. That’s all. Enough is enough. Love is so complicated and trivial. We understand that all love, no matter how fresh and sweet it is at the beginning, will become hurt and heavy in the end. We are both men and women who have experienced a lot. Therefore, we have learned to retreat from love and stay away from the harm that could have been avoided in our lives. We have lost the courage to care about love. Because, we all understand that love is the only weapon that can hurt us. Miss you, miss you, love you, happiness is in my heart, time never forget you! I am used to sending text messages to you before going to bed, telling you that I miss you, and telling me when you are sad. I am used to living without you. But we can’t love each other, because we can’t lose each other. Because I don’t love it, I will continue to love it. We ran forward along our own tracks, looking back occasionally, and found that you were still beside me. Part of this life belongs to you, but only to you. There is nothing in front of you, just your brother Cao. You are nothing in front of me, just my Rong er. No ambiguity, no love. Be the blue face of your life, Rong er.

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Make mistakes

Silence does not mean my fault. Breaking up is not the only result. I just haven’t figured out how to tell you. Silence does not mean my fault. Sadness is not the only result. I just want to hear you say once more that you still love me. Since you didn’t make mistakes, why did you hide from me? I feel so sad every day. What did I do wrong? Since you didn’t make any mistakes, why did you ignore me? You refused to say anything to me. Please don’t be silent any more. At midnight, listening to a song “making mistakes” made me sigh with emotion. Through the artistic conception of the song, we can know that there are quite a few people who make mistakes in the world of mortals. Whether the two lovers love each other so much that they are silent and speechless because one side makes mistakes or both sides make mistakes, love each other so much that they break up or feel sad? If you miss it, you may not be able to go back. The joys and sorrows you once loved become memories accumulated in your heart. The journey of life is still going on. Who can run aground the past without going to tomorrow? The steps of reality cannot stop, and time will smooth everything. We came to this world with a cry from mother’s belly and pulled the door ring of life. In the long river of spring and autumn, no matter work, study, love or life, we always stand at the crossroads of life and stare at it, and finally we have to make a choice to move forward. Once you go out, no matter whether the result is right or wrong, there is no chance to regret. I sat quietly beside the computer for a long time. After waking up, I thought a lot of questions over and over again. Finally, I smiled helplessly and said to myself: Everyone makes mistakes, but you must correct your mistakes. People can make mistakes, but they cannot make fatal mistakes. People always make mistakes in their life, and they will make many mistakes. Due to the lack of social experience and superficial life experience, some mistakes are inevitable. Even if we try hard to avoid them, it is hard to go beyond the past. However, as time goes, it can help us get out of trouble or stay away from confusion without detours; Bad things turn into good things and become a fortune in our lives. Who is right and who is wrong? Where is wrong and where is right? When does the error start and end? We all don’t know that we are making mistakes and no one can escape. There is a long way to go in life. What we need to do is to fall down, climb up, fall down and climb up again. People always make mistakes in their life, but I think it is still worth analyzing and summarizing later. Maybe everyone will think that mistakes should not happen, and no one pays for the mistakes they make. What we should do is not to indulge ourselves in the mire of making mistakes all the time, even be bitten by snakes once, and be afraid of broken ropes for ten years. But to learn from mistakes, there is nothing that cannot be overcome. There is no absolute fault or absolute right in the world of mortals; There is no absolute love, let alone absolute hate. I hope that both of you will be more tolerant. It is not easy to love each other. Why do you make mistakes and make mistakes again and again? Cherish is the most important thing. Love each other more, you will find that what you are around is your favorite. Don’t let love pass. Of course, everyone looks at the problem from different angles, different depths, different levels, and different conclusions. Every one of us wants to do everything well, and no one is willing to make mistakes on purpose. But once a mistake is made, everyone’s way of venting is also different. Wise people do not need to explain anything to themselves, nor will they investigate who should bear the responsibility, instead, first look at whether there are any remedial methods, and then summarize the causes of mistakes, in order to facilitate the next improvement, people can not always make repeated mistakes. Those people who argue for making mistakes always want to free themselves, so they will never know why they make mistakes? This is the saddest person! However, can mistakes in life be explained by pen and ink? To err is human? When people eat coarse cereals, it is inevitable to make mistakes. I only hope that someday in the future, after experiencing such and such life experiences, we can still see ourselves in the mirror with a pair of bright and clear eyes; when talking about your past, you can be calm and upright. Even if you make a mistake, it can also enlighten people; It will not be because of a certain mistake, and you will still spit a lonely smoke ring in the dead of night in a year of confusion; It will not be because of a certain mistake, with the chains of guilt in my whole life, I hesitated in the long dark night, looking for the dim light belonging to myself. People have to constantly grow, hone and learn from failures throughout their lives through making mistakes. Just like the sky after rain, Sunny is the theme song, making mistakes is just like a shower is just an episode. I hope this is not an era of making mistakes. I hope that both of you will not make mistakes. Love is an eternal melody that can be sung through the ages.

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Interesting stories (text)

I remember that before 1964, in the south of Xincang town where I lived, there was a small town called zhaojiaqiao. At that time, every July of the lunar calendar, there would be markets opening in that small town, people nearby will go to watch the bustle. We had to walk for more than three miles. What I want to say today was that on the way to zhaojiaqiao, we had to pass a small temple, which had no incense burner at that time, the Bodhisattva in the temple had already disappeared. I was not interested in that temple, but I was very interested in a couplet at the gate of the temple. This couplet is: month, month, month, month, month, month, month. Day, day, day, day, day, day, day. The horizontal criticism was: Lang Lang Qiankun. At that time, I was curious about the words on the couplet, thinking what on earth were these words and what did they read? It can’t be found in Xinhua Dictionary at all. Finally, during the Cultural Revolution, my classmate saw a Kangxi dictionary and found the pronunciation of these children: one month (month), two months (friend), three side-by-side monthly readings (Lang) four side-by-side monthly readings (dang). One daily reading (day), two side-by-side Daily reading (Sun), three side-by-side Daily reading (fine), and four side-by-side Daily reading (strange). According to this couplet and the horizontal criticism, I could only explain at that time that the gods in this temple could surrender to all demons in the world, and in the world of yin and yang, gods were always better than demons. Because of my deep memory, I can’t forget this matter all the time. Last year, I talked about this matter with a netizen online, and she asked me to check it online, after I input these words into Baidu search, the explanation that appeared was Ding Qiankun and I saw that there were many people who knew this couplet and asked many people, but there was no further explanation on the Internet. I have been thinking about the ancient people’s word creation and use. Why do they think of using so many couplets, day and month, to form couplets when they seek peace in the world? Day and month represent time, it also represents yin and yang. They must have had a deep world view. Now we are moving forward along their path, and we can further understand the thoughts of ancient people from the words.

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Thinks

[Introduction] like a wayward child, she said stubbornly, “I am willing to be happy, I am only willing to be happy. Half an acre of flower field has extended her short life infinitely; Pain and happiness are the reality of her life during her long illness days.

The wind is gentle, the flowers are light, it is autumn. Sitting alone on the stone bench, I let the wind blow my bangs mischievously, and let those happy or sad past events occupy my memory field full of happiness. It suddenly occurred to me that who once said that I turned around and looked back, and all I saw was happiness. I remembered the sun in those days, the wind in those days, the osmanthus tea in those days, and the purified water in those days. Just because I can’t forget those days of military training. Yes, how could I forget the alertness on the steps; How could I forget that the five points in the bridge hole were against the wall; How could I forget that the irregular start was on the right step; How could I forget, the echo in the music building and the lovely smiling face in the game? It turns out that all the seemingly painful journeys will appear in our memory with a beautiful image later. Then she thought of that beautiful girl. She wrote her favorite words quietly, from the accidental feeling of life at the beginning to the personal experience of life going away with flashy. She wrote about family affection and said, “Mom, we were originally the same life, and we are the most beloved mother and daughter in the world;” she wrote about friendship and said, “I have never been a considerate child, but she would put you in the most considerate position in my heart; She wrote about love, saying that I would like to be a flower, I would like to meet a affectionate you, and I would like to love you forever. She said stubbornly like a wayward child, “I am willing to be happy, I am only willing to be happy. Half an acre of flower field has extended her short life infinitely; Pain and happiness are the reality of her life during her long illness days. She refrained from the pain just to give the warmest smile to all the people who love her and her love. Then, leave quietly. She said, Tian is happy. Tian is happy, I believe. It was already autumn, and the fragrance of osmanthus was lingering around. The wind was blowing gently, and the sun seemed warm and peaceful. I remembered the military training we had experienced and the whole life Hetian had experienced. The strength and beauty of life originally exist in our life like that. Many, many, maybe you can only recall its beauty when it was about to end. Then, young life, don’t complain any more, please cherish it.

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